週六(8/16)1.創造幸運2.不快樂的原因

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創造自我幸運

How to Make Your Own Luck   Wiki How
Venture: this luck requires positive, proactive effort, and nurturing your ideas. No venture, no gain! No input, no processing, no output! No "get-up-and-go" and not moving ideas up and outward to make or boost events to develop and happen, then no luck.
 Believe in a goal. Write it down, and make this your luck "blueprint.
 Title your blueprint 'Make Luck for ______' (one of your areas of interest). If it is messy, that's fine as it'll take shape in time. These ideas can seem like ordinary things, or things that will be time-consuming and difficult but that apply to your future "luck" needs in that area.
 Be ready for new ideas. As soon as inspiration hits, find a way to write it down. If you don't record it, later you'll probably wonder, "What was that great idea...?" If you do not focus on a reasonably dynamic idea to develop and to actualize, then that kills this luck (but if you have and believe in your ideas, you can then make positive changes at many levels).
  Work smarter, not harder. Use connections with other people to help accomplish your goals. Go beyond making an effort and shift into innovating and trying new ways to get things done.
Partner up. Both Bill Gates and Steve Jobs had a technical expert as a startup-partner. Partnering with someone who is able in areas where you are not relieves you of your own limitations and makes more room for your strengths to shine.
 Seek new experiences. When you know what will improve your life or the lives of others around you, you create your own direction and strive forward. With this sense of direction in place, you can now seek and find what you're looking for, pursuing your blueprint goals, able to focus on what is in your plan, path or way.
Build up your experience. For example, gain the experience or expertise yourself through study and observation. Or, speed things up by finding a mentor who can help guide you along the path you've chosen — someone with real-world experience.
 Observe how others work without imposing on them. Creative people need some latitude and time to get ideas together and to get going. Be a good listener, rely on using good humor, and make time for relaxation together. Arguing with people who have as strong a vision or set of goals as you is inevitable, so make room for agreement too and never be unreasonable in insisting on your own way. Flex but be sure to push for your worthy innovations and improvements.
 Questions:
Do you believe in luck?
How to make your own luck?
Why do some people believe in luck?
How to learn something new every day
How to stop being unlucky?
What are the things lucky people do differently?
How to make you feel better if you feel unlucky?
Want to get lucky and very rich?
Do you think rich men are only lucky?
Reasons why some people get so lucky in life?
How to seek new experiences?
Tips to work smarter, not harder?
What are the good ways to get great ideas?



            
不快樂的原因

Things Unhappy People Have in Common (care2.com)

1. They Hate Their Jobs

You spend eight hours, sometimes much more at work. If you hate your job you can’t help but hate your life because you’re spending 40 out of the 168 hours in a week doing something you can’t stand. What’s worse, we often take our anger from work home with us, bringing that disgruntled attitude into our homes. I’m not saying go out and quit your job tomorrow. Instead, take an aerial view of your life. Why don’t you love your job? What’s missing? Is it the career itself? Is it your boss or your company? What’s your passion? What are you good at? Take time to answer these questions and then make a plan to move towards change, however long it takes.


2. They’re Constantly Worried About Money

Studies have proven that being rich won’t make us any happier. A Princeton University study showed that people needed an annual income of $75,000 per year per household and no more to be happy. Above that amount, more cash has no effect on “emotional well-being.” What this really means is that you need to be able to comfortably pay bills and save without worrying about finances. On the other hand, financial uncertainty does make us unhappy so this is another chance for evaluation. Are you overspending? What can you downsize? How can you minimize your life so that you can afford it? This is in no way an easy question, but it’s part of the journey.


3. They Don’t Have Any Active Hobbies

Happiness is linked to activity level. You have to move to feel good. What about yoga, hiking, swimming, surfing, biking, or running? Happiness is also linked to doing what you love so find active hobbies that make you happy and get to it.


4. They Think “Stuff” Will Make Them Happy

Unhappy people are constantly trying to fill the void by consuming, whether it be alcohol, food, or shopping. But the problem is happiness can’t be consumed, it’s cultivated from within. Meeting desires only brings fleeting happiness.


5. They’re Lonely

Cultivating relationships is important for both your health and your happiness. And that doesn’t just mean how good you are at social networking. Unfortunately nowadays more than a few of us view our laptop as our very best friend. Single or not, married or not, it’s important to always strive both to make friends and to keep them while also keeping close ties to family.


6. They Don’t Have Pets

Pets serve as support and provide unconditional love that we grow to depend on but at the same time, they don’t disrupt other human relationships, according to a new study. If you’re considering pet ownership, adopt a pet in need and follow this guide to responsible pet ownership.


7. They Don’t Like Themselves

We make ourselves happy by the way we view life and by learning to enjoy the moment. We make ourselves happy by the way we view ourselves. By opening our hearts we find peace but that peace has to first start off with you. If you dislike yourself, you can never be happy so give yourself a break. Learn to love yourself, you deserve it!
Questions:
What are the factors make people unhappy?
How to pursue happiness?
Does your job make you unhappy? Why?
What makes people unhappy at work?
Will getting a pet make you healthier and happier?
What are the benefits of keeping pets?
How to develop good hobbies?
Can alcohol, food, or shopping make you happier?
Does living in cities make people unhappy?
Dose money makes us unhappy?
Can money can buy happiness?
Can too much money make you unhappy?
How to open your heart and learn something new?

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