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要先瞭解的人生哲學
Life Lessons People Don’t Learn Until It’s Too Late lovelivehealth
1. It’s impossible to please everyone
Don’t waste your energy trying to make sure that everyone likes you. The reason why one person finds you delightful will be the reason why another person would rather avoid you! Everything from personal insecurities to lessons learned in childhood will influence how others perceive you, so let go of the sense that you are responsible for their reactions. At the end of the day, it’s better to have a handful of close, respectful friends than it is to have a huge social circle in which you never feel truly known.
2. Mistakes are a fact of life
If you hold yourself to impossibly high standards then you will never find happiness or peace. Everyone makes errors of judgment, so forgive yourself when you make the wrong decision. In addition, you can always learn something useful from your choices, so what seems like a mistake at the time may turn out to lead you to a better destination in the long term.
3. Don’t stop dreaming
Children are constantly dreaming, playing with ideas and imagining possible futures. However, most adults grow out of this habit, often concentrating on practicalities and worries instead. Nurture the creative side of your mind by allowing yourself to dream up lofty goals. It is better to attempt to reach these goals than to later regret all the urges you have suppressed.
4. Even true love requires work
Fairy tales and romantic movies often peddle the myth that true love is hard to find but easy to maintain once it is located. In fact, even the best and most meaningful relationships require sustained effort, and assuming otherwise may lead you to abandon a perfectly good partnership. If you remain committed, empathetic and willing to engage in honest communication then you maximize your chances of romantic happiness.
5. Don’t try to change others
It’s easy to look at other people’s choices and think that you would have known better if you were in their shoes. However, you will save yourself a lot of anguish if you let go of the urge to change other people and instead focus on making the best of your own life.
Q:
Is it possible to please everyone? Why or why not?
Do you agree the saying that “mistakes are a fact of life”?
What to do when make the wrong decision?
How to expand your social circle?
Can you love your friends and family members in spite of their flaws?
Is it difficult to change others?
Do you agree the saying that “true love requires work”?
How to cultivating happiness? What are the tips to get more satisfaction?
如何判斷心智成熟?
What is Adulthood? 20 Defining Characteristics of a True Adult Written by Marc Chernoff
What is an adult?How can one classify a true adult? Many people directly attribute age to adulthood. The problem with this methodology becomes evident when you discuss the topic with various people of different cultural backgrounds. If you ask each of them what age they believe constitutes the point at which a person progresses from childhood into adulthood, their answers will always be different. Why? Because every one of the answers are based on subjective opinion. Adulthood is not based age; it’s based strictly on emotional maturity.
So what constitutes emotional maturity, and thus adulthood? Here are 20 defining characteristics of a true adult:
1.Realizing that maturity is an ongoing process, not a state, and continuously striving for self improvement.
2.Able to manage personal jealousy and feelings of envy.
3.Has the ability to listen to and evaluate the viewpoints of others.
4.Maintains patience and flexibility on a daily basis.
5.Accepts the fact that you can’t always win, and learns from mistakes instead of whining about the outcome.
6.Does not overanalyze negative points, but instead looks for the positive points in the subject being analyzed.
7.Is able to differentiate between rational decision making and emotional impulse.
8.Understands that no skill or talent can overshadow the act of preparation.
9.Capable of managing temper and anger.
10.Keeps other people’s feeling in mind and limits selfishness.
11.Being able to distinguish between ‘needs’ and ‘wants’.
12.Shows confidence without being overly arrogant.
13.Handles pressure with self composure.
14.Takes ownership and responsibility of personal actions.
15.Manages personal fears.
16.Able to see the various shades of grey between the extremes of black and white in every situation.
17.Accepts negative feedback as a tool for self improvement.
18.Aware of personal insecurities and self-esteem.
19.Able to separate true love from transitory infatuation.
20.Understanding that open communication is the key to progression.
Q:
How to define characteristics of a true adult?
How to make good self-improvement.
Do you able to manage personal jealousy and feelings of envy well?
How to avoid being overly arrogant?
How to sharpen your communication skills?
How to learn from mistakes?
Are you capable of managing temper and anger?
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