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What Your Favorite Shoes Say About Your Personality
Aubrey Almanza
Are you a go-getter, an attention-seeker, or a loyal friend? This fashion expert can tell, just by looking at your footwear.
High-heeled boot wearers take charge
In the event of a crisis, the person who loves wearing high-heeled boots will always be the one to take control of the situation. They're quick on their feet and able to make clear, rational decisions. This woman is exceptionally self-assured, so people around her feel instantly safer in her hands. "The high-heeled boot is a take-charge kind of person," says Kathy Kelada, author of Be the Shoe and a Hollywood-stylist turned life coach. "She loves being center stage and is very assertive."
Running shoe fans are goal-oriented
If you're someone who enjoys fitness challenges, takes your New Year's resolutions to heart, and has been known to go the extra mile with a label maker, we bet you prefer running shoes. "This is someone who's very confident, very goal-oriented, and very organized," reveals Kelada. "They really illustrate the idea of multitasking, taking care of everything, and being everywhere. I always think of moms when I picture the running shoe."
Clog wearers are nurturing and outdoorsy
Would your friends describe you as down to earth? Are you happiest on a hike or watching the sun rise? If so, it's obvious that you're the clog type. "The clog is an open spirit, and very outdoorsy. They love nature and the whole regenerative effect of being outdoors," Kelada says. "A lot of nurses, healthcare professionals, chefs, and people that work in kitchens wear clogs. I don't think that's an accident, because these people have a very nurturing, generous, and loving spirit."
Flats fans are behind-the-scenes leaders
If you're someone who always turns to flats, we know that you work your butt off behind the scenes to ensure there's always a perfectly finished product. And the best part is, you're so humble that you don't require any attention or recognition for your efforts. "The flat-wearer is focused, very modest, and generous," says Kelada. "They're often the women doing all the work in the world. They're the ones behind the scenes making the engine run." (While we're peeking in your closet, check out what your favorite handbag says about your personality.)
Women in flashy stilettos work hard and have excellent taste
Women who wear flashy stilettos like Jimmy Choos and Christian Louboutins (or other heels inspired by their aesthetics) may seem materialistic, but these women are actually incredibly hardworking. They have major drive, determination, and a standout work ethic. "This is someone who says 'yes' before she says 'no.' She's very willing, and very open to possibilities," says Kelada. "She also really loves and values beauty, so she surrounds herself with beauty, whether it be in things, people, or how she lives. It doesn't always have to be expensive, it just has to be pleasing to the eye. You walk in and go, 'oh what a lovely room' or 'this is so inviting.' She has a knack for being able to create an aesthetically pleasing space."
Work boots wearers are always looking ahead
Alright Doc Martin fans, admit it: you love to plan ahead. Rather than live impulsively, you're very analytical in your approach to life, and prefer to have a strategy. This way, you're always prepared for what comes next and you never have to worry about unforeseen obstacles. "The work boot wearer is grounded, very practical, and always has a plan. This person never moves without a plan and is always thinking two or three steps ahead," Kelada says. (If you think this is spot-on, check out what your fragrance of choice reveals about your personality.)
Flip-flop fans are laid back
As you may have guessed, this person is very chilled out and easy to be around. They're happy to go with the flow and see where life takes them. Rather than succumb to societal pressures, they'd rather follow their bliss and do what actually makes them happy, whatever that may be. "The flip-flop person is ready for anything, very easygoing, and unconventional," says Kelada. "They're someone who is spontaneous and willing to go with whatever is happening in the moment, without regard to the 'appropriate thing,' the norm, or what's expected of them."
Sneaker buffs get along with everyone
Are you someone who relates to people much younger than you, yet also feels comfortable conversing with someone much older? Sometimes you're an old soul, and sometimes you're the life of the party. For sneaker buffs, age truly is but a number, because you get along with everyone. "The sneaker is very versatile—a very open person willing to explore a lot of options and different ideas. They're energetic and ageless; they're really not young or old. They seem to move fluidly through age-specific groups," according to Kelada. Here's how to keep those sneakers smelling fresh.
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Nice Things to Say to a Friend | Operation Warm
What do you say to a friend to lift their spirits or let them know that you value their friendship? Compliments can go a long way to letting someone know that you care, but there are even more powerful benefits to saying nice things to someone.
The Power of Saying Nice Things
According to research, the social reward of a having something nice said to you, or about you, could enhance your motor skills and improve performance. So, your compliments can help someone learn a new skill or improve an old one.
In fact, the scientists found that the same area of the brain is activated whether a person is rewarded with cash or a compliment. Talk really is cheap, and the nicest gift you may be able to give to someone is a few positive words.
Mark Twain once said, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” These little gems really can sustain a person.
What to Say to Someone
Here are some ready-made compliments you can use to say something nice to someone, no matter what the occasion. Feeling low, chances are there are a few in here you can say to yourself, too.
You are more fun than anyone or anything I know, including bubble wrap.
You are the most perfect you there is.
You are enough.
You are one of the strongest people I know.
You look great today.
You have the best smile.
Your outlook on life is amazing.
You just light up the room.
You make a bigger impact than you realize.
You are always so helpful.
You have the best laugh.
I appreciate our friendship.
Your inside is even more beautiful than your outside.
You just glow.
I love the way you bring out the best in people.
Our family/school/community/church is better because you are part of it.
You bring out the best in the rest of us.
You inspire me.
Nothing can stop you.
You just made my day.
You make me float up like I’m on millions of bubbles (We got this one from one of our kids after he got a new coat.)
You are an excellent friend.
When it comes to cooking, no one’s meals are quite as delicious.
I am a better person because of you.
You have taught me so much.
I like the way you are.
You are a great parent. You can tell just by looking at how thoughtful your kids are (A two-for-one compliment)
You have the best sense of style.
You make me want to be a better person.
You look so young!
I hope you are proud of yourself, because I am!
You are one of the bravest people I know.
That color looks perfect on you.
You are so trustworthy; I always believe what you say.
Everything seems brighter when you are around.
Even the things you don’t like about yourself make you interesting.
I know that you will always have my back, because that is the kind of person you are.
You have the best ideas.
You are a great example to others.
I know that if you ever make a mistake, you fix it.
You’ve got great leadership skills.
You have amazing creative potential.
You are stunning.
You really seem to know who you are. I admire that.
You are the reason I am smiling today.
You’re a gift to everyone you meet.
You have a gift for making people comfortable.
I enjoy spending time with you.
I am really glad we met.
I tell everyone how amazing you are.
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