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Bride 'market' in Bulgaria Mail Online
Scores of young Roma women were recently paraded before potential suitors at a Bulgarian 'bride market' where poor families are given the chance to arrange financially beneficial marriages for their children.
Here the potential brides are provocatively dressed, donning gobs of mascara and wearing flashy jewellery, towering heels and mini-skirts. And surrounding them are young men whose family hope to find them a wife at a good cost.
The families gathered in Stara Zagora are part of a community of about 18,000 Roma known as Kalaidzhi, who traditionally make a living as coppersmiths.
They are among the most poverty-stricken people in a deeply impoverished region and seek to forge mutually beneficial unions that will help them weather Bulgaria's economic downturn.
The 'bride market' -- held four times a year on various religious holidays during the spring and summer -- is a chance for the Roma's nomadic tinkers to meet and not only catch up on gossip, but also play matchmaker for their adolescent sons and daughters.
It starts, like a high school dance, with groups of boys and girls in separate clumps, occasionally shaking hands and checking each other out while mothers and fathers stay discreetly in the background.
Boys and girls dance side-by-side on the cars in a rare opportunity that flouts the community's conservative values, in which youths are rarely allowed to mingle with the opposite sex.
Kalaidzhi are known to remove girls from school at 15 or even earlier to keep them safe from temptation.
If the youths warm to each other, the fair can trigger complex financial negotiations about the price a young man's family must pay to a woman's parents if they are to be married.
The cost of a bride -- between 5,000 and 10,000 lev (£2,200 to £4,300) -- has dropped in recent years as jobs have dried up. And wedding festivities are much more modest with cash so tight.
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