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錢可買愛情嗎?
Can Money Buy You Love?
We all make calculations when choosing a
partner. Does love always come first?
Published on February 5, 2011 by Aaron
Ben-Zeév, Ph.D. in In the Name of Love
"Say you don't need no diamond ring and I'll be satisfied
Tell me that you want the kind of thing that money just can't buy
I
don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love."—The Beatles
Can money buy us love? There is no simple
answer. If love is like religion, then it cannot be bought nor negotiated. If
romantic interaction is similar to a commercial transaction, then love can be
bought and can be negotiated—and compromised. Love seems to be similar to both,
but identical to neither.
Avishi Margalit describes two pictures of
politics: as economics and as religion. If politics is viewed as economics, it
is entirely subject to compromise and exchange. If politics is viewed as
religion, there are aspects that must be considered sacrosanct and on which we
must never negotiate or compromise. Margalit argues that economic life is based
on substitution—one good can be replaced by another. Accordingly, there is
ample room for negotiation and compromise in economic life.
Is love similar to religion or to
economics? It seems that in different aspects, love is similar to both religion
and commercial behavior.
In many respects, romantic love resembles a
kind of religion. They are similar in that they dictate basic beliefs, demand
fundamental moral standards, and bestow high personal value upon their objects.
The basic assumptions underlying the Romantic Ideology—it is characterized by its comprehensive and uncompromising
nature—can indeed be found in many monotheistic religions. Not unlike the
function of religion, love is considered to give meaning to life, to overcome
all obstacles, and to offer a share in eternity. One's beloved is often
characterized as "the sweetest angel in heaven or on earth," or as a
"divine gift." The beloved is perceived to be a perfect person whose
existence cannot be comprehended.
Questions:
Can money buy you love?
In your opinion, Money come first or love
come first?
Tell us that you want the kind of thing
that money just can't buy?
Will you marry for money or for love?
Are you satisfied with your life?
What are the reasons money can buy
happiness?
What do you do when you have to choose
between loves?
分辨好朋友
Why good friends are so important(reachout)
A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.
Signs of a good friend
Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –big and small – that show they care.
Some common signs of a good friend include
someone who will support you no matter what
someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
someone who is kind and has respect for you
someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they should
someone whose company you enjoy
showing loyalty
being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
someone who can laugh when you do
someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
someone who makes you smile
someone who is there to listen
someone who will cry when you cry.
分辨好朋友
Why good friends are so important(reachout)
A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.
Signs of a good friend
Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –big and small – that show they care.
Some common signs of a good friend include
someone who will support you no matter what
someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
someone who is kind and has respect for you
someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they should
someone whose company you enjoy
showing loyalty
being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
someone who can laugh when you do
someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
someone who makes you smile
someone who is there to listen
someone who will cry when you cry.
Questions:
Why good friends are so important?
What makes a good friend?
What are the signs of a good friend? What are the signs of a bad friend?
Do you always host to your friends?
How to get rid of a bad friend
How to help when friends are in difficulty?
Are you willing helping friends in financial difficulty?
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