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背後捅你一刀的人!
Tips To Handle People Who Stab You in the
Back Celestine Chua lifehack
Cut this person away
For me personally, there is no place for
hypocrisy in my life. I had more than my fair share of hypocrisy when I was in
primary school (a separate story for a separate day), which is why I decided
that I’m done as far as unauthenticity and shadiness of character are
concerned. Whenever I meet someone whom I feel is unauthentic, I would cut the
person from my life because I have no wish to deal with misgivings, distrust,
disloyalty, etc.
Do damage control
Then, I did damage control by rectifying
the statements which had been made. I shared my side of the story to whoever
they were aired to. While it was still up to the party to make his/her
conclusion, at least I got to say my piece in this situation, rather than leave
things hanging.
If you have been backstabbed, take a step
back and evaluate your situation. Has there been any “damage” done? Yes? No? If
yes, what is this damage? Is it damage to your reputation? Damage in terms of
potential business deals? Damage in terms of relationships? For the damage
rendered, what can you do to reverse it?
Let go
One of my biggest qualms is that people
might have bought into what the badmouther said and used those words to
formulate their impressions of me, thereby making it impossible for me to ever
form a true, authentic relationship with any of them. My life mission is to
connect with everyone in the world, and to know that some people might have
closed their hearts from me because of certain comments made by another is
truly devastating.
Self-reflect
From this episode, I learned quite a number
of things about myself, surrounding my fears, my anxieties, and my treatment of
friendships. I learned to be more appreciative of true friends who have always
been there for me. I learned to be more sensitive to other people’s feelings. I
also learned that I can be dead wrong in my judgment sometimes, and what I
think is my intuition at work can just be a neurological dysfunction in my left
brain.
Q:
How to handle with a “friend” stabbed you
behind your back?
How to deal with a person who badmouthing
you in a pretty malicious way?
Do your gossip behind the back of your
coworkers?
How to know if your friend is toxic? How to
handle toxic friends?
How to cut the person you dislike away?
Will you let it go if someone who hurt you?
Do you do self-reflect when something go
wrong? And how to self-reflect?
流感爆發/流感預防
流感爆發/流感預防
Flu-related complications, including 84
deaths TAIPEI TIMES
The Ministry of Health and Welfare was
heavily criticized by legislators for acting too slowly against the flu
pandemic, with insufficient medical resources for treating emergency cases of
serious flu-related complications at a meeting of the legislature’s Social
Welfare and Environmental Hygiene Committee in Taipei yesterday.
In the ministry’s report, Chiang said as of
Sunday, a total of 1,419 serious flu-related complications, including 84
deaths, had been reported since July last year. The peak of the annual flu
season in in late February.
Tips for Avoiding Cold and Flu WebMD
By Suz Redfearn
Get a flu shot. It's the No. 1 thing you can do to prevent the flu.
Wash your hands -- a lot. No matter what line of work you’re in, if you come in
contact with people who are contagious, you have to wash your hands over and
over, says Alan Pocinki, MD. Pocinki practices internal medicine at the George
Washington University Hospital in Washington, DC.
“ Wash your hands as much as you can
stand, and then some more -- especially after wrapping up a visit with someone
who’s sick,” Pocinki says.
It sounds so simple, but soap and water are
the constant companions of doctors and nurses. To completely get rid of viruses
from your skin, you need to scrub hard for 20 seconds or more. A good way to
time yourself is to sing "Happy Birthday" twice while scrubbing the
backs of your hands, between your fingers, and under your nails. It doesn't
matter if the water's hot or cold -- the very act of scrubbing will physically
remove the germs.
Avoid getting close to people who are
sick. For example, don't shake hands.
“Doctors tend to be very cautious about
hand shaking,” says Terri Remy, MD, medical director of Medical Associates at
Beauregard in Alexandria, VA. “Just explain, ‘To keep transmission of colds and
flu down, I’m not shaking hands.
Q:
What do you think of the news reported that
flu-related complications, including 84 deaths?
What are the tips for avoiding cold and
flu?
How to kill flu germs?
What are the remedies to get over a cold? (example:
ginger soup)
How to get physically stronger
Does wash your hands important?
Why do some people get cold easily?
What are the healthy living tips to prevent
illness?
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