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周六(4/2) 1.殺童事件!2.如何激勵人心?
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殺童事件!
Taiwanese man suspected of beheading four-year-old is beaten by angry mob abc.net.au
A man suspected of decapitating a four-year-old girl has been beaten by an angry mob while being detained in Taiwan.
The killer grabbed the child from behind as she cycled to a metro station in Taipei with her mother to meet relatives, police said.
Pushing away the mother of the girl, who had rushed forward to save her daughter, he beheaded the child with a kitchen knife.
Seven bystanders were unable to stop the man, who was arrested at the scene, police said.
The girl has been identified only by the surname Liu.
Police said the suspect, a 33-year-old man with the surname Wang, had been arrested in the past over drug-related crimes.
Taiwan's Apple Daily reported that he was unemployed and living with his parents, and had previously been hospitalised with mental health issues.
Suspect pleaded to 'stop beating'
Local television footage showed dozens of angry people gathering outside a police station in Taipei.
Some attacked the suspect as he was being transferred to the prosecutor's office for questioning, while he pleaded with them to "stop beating".
Others came to lay flowers and toys at the spot where the girl was killed, near an elementary school.
A district court ruled that Wang was a flight risk and ordered him to be detained.
The case, the second child killing in Taipei in less than a year, has sparked criticism of calls to abolish the death penalty.
Taiwan's parliament announced it would bring forward a review of a bill that would ensure those convicted of killing children under 12 were given the death penalty, and at minimum a life sentence in the case of severe mental illness.
The review will take place on Thursday, according to politician Wang Yu-min, who proposed the bill.
Q:
What do you think about this horrible news that the man decapitated a four-year-old girl?
What would you do if you were a bystander at the spot?
Does crime rates increase in Taiwan?
How to deal with a random attack?
How to deal with a man who has mental health issues?
Is Taiwan a safe country?
What do you think of capital punishment?
How to Encourage People
Reject negative responses. These are the reactions such as frowns or pouts. They're also the physical evidence such as bad letter grades or nasty comments left online. There is always room for improvement––most people are constantly aware of this––but there is no room for berating or criticizing with mean intent; you may feel temporarily clever but barbs leave lasting marks, with no benefit. Think with a helping spirit rather than an attacking one––be very wary of your own inner emotions if all you feel like doing is dressing down someone else, as the source of your irritation is inner unhappiness. Deal with that directly rather than discouraging someone else.
Tell people positive things about themselves. People love to hear how you perceive them in a positive light; all too often we are our own worst critics and it is can be surprisingly uplifting to hear someone external tell us quite the opposite of our worries. For example, you can point out how kind, caring, helpful, thoughtful, considerate, timely, reflective, innovative, etc. a person is. Try to point out concrete examples that demonstrate to your mind why the person shows these traits, as that will help the other person to see that you're genuine.
Notice when someone does something good. While we tend to admire the way people look or have the courage to look or act differently, often we stay silent. This is a pity, as it tends to allow the spiteful pick-apart culture so adored in celebrity-style media to take central stage. Part of moving away from such personal attacks involves shifting to always using personal compliments instead. By displaying this regularly, you serve as a role model on how to encourage people, rather than putting them down. •For example, you might like to notice people's dress and grooming, such as saying: “I love the way you dress", or "I love the way you comb your hair”.
Bite your tongue when you're feeling mean. We all feel mean at times, often when we're tired, rundown, hungry or feel humiliated in some way. It happens and it's part of life's journey to learn how to manage our own blues and down times. One important lesson to learn is to bite your tongue and not say negative and discouraging things, just to get people off your back. Instead, you could insert an encouragement or simply say nothing until you feel more like yourself again. •If you do overstep the mark (and goodness, who hasn't at some point?), apologize. This ensures that you do the right thing by the other person. You cannot make the other person forgive you or forget what you've done but you can always set things to right from your end and continue in a constructive and fair manner from that point on. Lesson learned. Move on.
Q:
How to encourage people?
What are the ways to be good for someone else?
How to be a more thoughtful person?
How to deal with nasty comments left online?
What do you do when you feel humiliated?
Why do people discourage others?
How to deal with unsupportive friends
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