週四 (11/24)1. 圓滑之道2.想要更迷人—多吃蔬果!

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圓滑之道
The Art of Tact and Diplomacy   skillsyouneed.com

Tact and diplomacy are methods used to aid effective communication, especially during negotiation and when attempting to be persuasive or assertive.  

Using tact and diplomacy appropriately can lead to improved relationships with other people and are a way to build and develop mutual respect, which in turn can lead to more successful outcomes and less difficult or stressful communications.

Tact and diplomacy are methods used to aid effective communication, especially during negotiation and when attempting to be persuasive or assertive.  

Using tact and diplomacy appropriately can lead to improved relationships with other people and are a way to build and develop mutual respect, which in turn can lead to more successful outcomes and less difficult or stressful communications.

Prerequisites for Successful Tact and Diplomacy

As well as a level of common sense, good judgement and practice in various situations, the effective use of tact and diplomacy relies on some other key skills, namely:

    Attentive Listening:  You need to be able to listen to not just what is being said but also how it is being said in order to understand, and react appropriately to, others.  See our page – Types of Listening for more information.
    Emotional Intelligence:  People with higher emotional intelligence can usually use tact and diplomacy more naturally in communication.  Emotional intelligence is a measure of how well we understand our own emotions and the emotions of others.  Learn more, see our page – Emotional Intelligence.
    Showing Empathy: As an extension to emotional intelligence, empathy is your ability to see the world from another person’s perspective.  See our page – What is Empathy? for more information.
    Assertiveness: The reason for using tact and diplomacy is very often to persuade or influence others to think or behave in a certain way.  Assertiveness is fundamental to this process and a skill that many people lack.  We have a whole section on assertiveness for you to explore, see Assertiveness Techniques for more.
    Rapport: Rapport is closely linked to tact and diplomacy as well as emotional intelligence and good manners.  Our page Building Rapport examines rapport building in detail.
    Politeness:  Being polite and courteous, respecting other people’s view-points and cultural differences is important in many interpersonal relationships.  We provide some tips on How to be Polite and discover the links between Politeness and Honesty on our further pages.
Q:
What are the good tacts and diplomatic methods for negotiation?
How to persuade people? How to be persuasive?
How to develop good communication skills
How to build trust?
How to build rapport with customers?

What are the ways to communicate more effectively with customers?
「The secret to being popular with women: eat lots of fruits and vegetables」的圖片搜尋結果
想要更迷人多吃蔬果!
Guys, listen up! The secret to being popular with women: eat lots of fruits and vegetables       China post

Japanese commenters react to the news that eating healthy makes you smell better.

Contrary to popular belief, the best way for men to meet women isn’t by becoming an idol otaku or a rental boyfriend online. Instead, it’s all about what they’re putting into their mouths.

According to an article in Evolution and Human Behavior, sweat produced by males who ate a balanced diet consisting of fruits, vegetables, fats, meat, eggs and tofu was judged by females to be more pleasant smelling than the sweat of males who ate a higher concentration of carbohydrates. The better smelling sweat was recorded to have more “floral, fruity, sweet and medicinal qualities” to it.

Sweat and attractiveness may not go hand-in-hand in most people’s minds, but if you’re a guy who’s been having bad luck with the ladies, then you might want to consider this: women typically have a more sensitive sense of smell than men, and women typically rate their partner’s smell as a more important factor in attractiveness than men.

So even if you don’t care that you smell like a used diaper on hot days or when you’re exercising, chances are those last couple hundred women who turned you down do care very much.
Q:
Who to be popular with women/men?
Do you think that eating lots of fruits and vegetables will help become more popular?
Do body smells really attract the opposite sex?
Do perfumes really attract the opposite sex?
What are the benefit of eating fruits and vegetables?
What are some pros and cons of eating meat?


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