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為什麼都是藉口?
Why do people make excuses ?
(Copyright Susan Krauss Whitbourn)
People are quick to give excuses
You could have noticed that unsuccessful people are afflicted with a mind-freezing ailment. Let us call this illness – excusisties that is a love towards giving excuses. Virtually every person has had it at moderate doses. As with any illness if not dealt with at its early stage, gets a whole lot worse.
The person who has been repeating his grade the last five years carries a bucketful of reasons to reveal why he has to be in that situation. The excuse goes something like this. “What can I do? Lecturers are not much of a help when it comes to assignments?”
The moment the individual turns into a sorry victim of this specific excuse he sticks with it in order to convince others that his lack of good results, isn't really his own fault. With constant repetition even he actually starts believing that it is real and not an excuse. It has now turned into a chronic disease.
Knowing that excuses from a person can backfire and the people they have to deal with loosing respect in them, why do people still insist in giving those excuses?
A simple logical reason is they do not want to be seen as incapable, without integrity or incapable of keeping a promise. They twist a bit of the authentic reason, somewhat camouflaging the authentic reason with a one that sounds better. This way the people offered the excuse would still look up to him.
To put it in another word it is a lie. Not a blatant lie but as they put ‘a white lie’, which to them would not hurt anybody. They hold on to the principle of: What you do not know (the truth) won’t hurt you.
According to some researches done on this subject, it was found this ‘habit’ of giving excuses can be traced back to the early childhood. Every time a child wants something it will begin by asking it normally. However if it doesn’t get what it wants the normal way it will indulge in diabolical techniques ,”Like…….my teacher always scolds me for wearing this old shoes!”
Parents in wanting their child to have the best and not being scolded by the teacher would invariably succumb to the child’s demand. When the child gets his way, a habit is formed….the habit of giving excuses (in this case a white lie).
Questions:
How to make an excuse if you were late for a date/ an appointment?
Why do people make excuses?
What to do if someone make excuses?
Are white lies good or bad? Does telling white lies make you a bad person?
White lies? Good or bad in a marriage?
How to detect when someone's lying?
How to make someone admit they are lying?
How to overcome making excuses?
How to admit when you’re wrong?
How to get rid of bad habits?
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How to Make Your Own Luck Wiki How
Venture: this luck requires positive, proactive effort, and nurturing your ideas. No venture, no gain! No input, no processing, no output! No "get-up-and-go" and not moving ideas up and outward to make or boost events to develop and happen, then no luck.
Believe in a goal. Write it down, and make this your luck "blueprint.
Title your blueprint 'Make Luck for ______' (one of your areas of interest). If it is messy, that's fine as it'll take shape in time. These ideas can seem like ordinary things, or things that will be time-consuming and difficult but that apply to your future "luck" needs in that area.
Be ready for new ideas. As soon as inspiration hits, find a way to write it down. If you don't record it, later you'll probably wonder, "What was that great idea...?" If you do not focus on a reasonably dynamic idea to develop and to actualize, then that kills this luck (but if you have and believe in your ideas, you can then make positive changes at many levels).
Work smarter, not harder. Use connections with other people to help accomplish your goals. Go beyond making an effort and shift into innovating and trying new ways to get things done.
Partner up. Both Bill Gates and Steve Jobs had a technical expert as a startup-partner. Partnering with someone who is able in areas where you are not relieves you of your own limitations and makes more room for your strengths to shine.
Seek new experiences. When you know what will improve your life or the lives of others around you, you create your own direction and strive forward. With this sense of direction in place, you can now seek and find what you're looking for, pursuing your blueprint goals, able to focus on what is in your plan, path or way.
Build up your experience. For example, gain the experience or expertise yourself through study and observation. Or, speed things up by finding a mentor who can help guide you along the path you've chosen — someone with real-world experience.
Observe how others work without imposing on them. Creative people need some latitude and time to get ideas together and to get going. Be a good listener, rely on using good humor, and make time for relaxation together. Arguing with people who have as strong a vision or set of goals as you is inevitable, so make room for agreement too and never be unreasonable in insisting on your own way. Flex but be sure to push for your worthy innovations and improvements.
Questions:
Do you believe in luck?
How to make your own luck?
Why do some people believe in luck?
How to learn something new every day
How to stop being unlucky?
What are the things lucky people do differently?
How to make you feel better if you feel unlucky?
Want to get lucky and very rich?
Do you think rich men are only lucky?
Reasons why some people get so lucky in life?
How to seek new experiences?
Tips to work smarter, not harder?
What are the good ways to get great ideas?
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為什麼都是藉口?
Why do people make excuses ?
(Copyright Susan Krauss Whitbourn)
People are quick to give excuses
You could have noticed that unsuccessful people are afflicted with a mind-freezing ailment. Let us call this illness – excusisties that is a love towards giving excuses. Virtually every person has had it at moderate doses. As with any illness if not dealt with at its early stage, gets a whole lot worse.
The person who has been repeating his grade the last five years carries a bucketful of reasons to reveal why he has to be in that situation. The excuse goes something like this. “What can I do? Lecturers are not much of a help when it comes to assignments?”
The moment the individual turns into a sorry victim of this specific excuse he sticks with it in order to convince others that his lack of good results, isn't really his own fault. With constant repetition even he actually starts believing that it is real and not an excuse. It has now turned into a chronic disease.
Knowing that excuses from a person can backfire and the people they have to deal with loosing respect in them, why do people still insist in giving those excuses?
A simple logical reason is they do not want to be seen as incapable, without integrity or incapable of keeping a promise. They twist a bit of the authentic reason, somewhat camouflaging the authentic reason with a one that sounds better. This way the people offered the excuse would still look up to him.
To put it in another word it is a lie. Not a blatant lie but as they put ‘a white lie’, which to them would not hurt anybody. They hold on to the principle of: What you do not know (the truth) won’t hurt you.
According to some researches done on this subject, it was found this ‘habit’ of giving excuses can be traced back to the early childhood. Every time a child wants something it will begin by asking it normally. However if it doesn’t get what it wants the normal way it will indulge in diabolical techniques ,”Like…….my teacher always scolds me for wearing this old shoes!”
Parents in wanting their child to have the best and not being scolded by the teacher would invariably succumb to the child’s demand. When the child gets his way, a habit is formed….the habit of giving excuses (in this case a white lie).
Questions:
How to make an excuse if you were late for a date/ an appointment?
Why do people make excuses?
What to do if someone make excuses?
Are white lies good or bad? Does telling white lies make you a bad person?
White lies? Good or bad in a marriage?
How to detect when someone's lying?
How to make someone admit they are lying?
How to overcome making excuses?
How to admit when you’re wrong?
How to get rid of bad habits?
創造幸運
How to Make Your Own Luck Wiki How
Venture: this luck requires positive, proactive effort, and nurturing your ideas. No venture, no gain! No input, no processing, no output! No "get-up-and-go" and not moving ideas up and outward to make or boost events to develop and happen, then no luck.
Believe in a goal. Write it down, and make this your luck "blueprint.
Title your blueprint 'Make Luck for ______' (one of your areas of interest). If it is messy, that's fine as it'll take shape in time. These ideas can seem like ordinary things, or things that will be time-consuming and difficult but that apply to your future "luck" needs in that area.
Be ready for new ideas. As soon as inspiration hits, find a way to write it down. If you don't record it, later you'll probably wonder, "What was that great idea...?" If you do not focus on a reasonably dynamic idea to develop and to actualize, then that kills this luck (but if you have and believe in your ideas, you can then make positive changes at many levels).
Work smarter, not harder. Use connections with other people to help accomplish your goals. Go beyond making an effort and shift into innovating and trying new ways to get things done.
Partner up. Both Bill Gates and Steve Jobs had a technical expert as a startup-partner. Partnering with someone who is able in areas where you are not relieves you of your own limitations and makes more room for your strengths to shine.
Seek new experiences. When you know what will improve your life or the lives of others around you, you create your own direction and strive forward. With this sense of direction in place, you can now seek and find what you're looking for, pursuing your blueprint goals, able to focus on what is in your plan, path or way.
Build up your experience. For example, gain the experience or expertise yourself through study and observation. Or, speed things up by finding a mentor who can help guide you along the path you've chosen — someone with real-world experience.
Observe how others work without imposing on them. Creative people need some latitude and time to get ideas together and to get going. Be a good listener, rely on using good humor, and make time for relaxation together. Arguing with people who have as strong a vision or set of goals as you is inevitable, so make room for agreement too and never be unreasonable in insisting on your own way. Flex but be sure to push for your worthy innovations and improvements.
Questions:
Do you believe in luck?
How to make your own luck?
Why do some people believe in luck?
How to learn something new every day
How to stop being unlucky?
What are the things lucky people do differently?
How to make you feel better if you feel unlucky?
Want to get lucky and very rich?
Do you think rich men are only lucky?
Reasons why some people get so lucky in life?
How to seek new experiences?
Tips to work smarter, not harder?
What are the good ways to get great ideas?
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