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什麼 會讓兩人更親密?
Things That Ultimately Bring Two People Closer relrules.com
Two people in a relationship are always investing something, big or small, in their relationship to keep it healthy and strong. That is how time is passed and more is learned about each other. Date nights are set for the sole purpose of having to spend more time together to have fun and to be closer to each other in different ways.
There are some things that every couple should try together to spend a good time. They are rather silly and not so dreamy tasks but they are guaranteed to give you two the quality time you always look for to spend with each other.
Learn Together:
It might sound clich but taking classes together can be a fun experience for two people who subconsciously wish to be more about each other. Learning new skills like playing a guitar or learning a foreign language with the person you have feelings for can be a moving experience. It is actually said to have brought people closer and there is no wonder why.
Go on The Typical Date:
Every once in a while, you should go on a typical date with your partner. A candle-lit dinner with both of you wearing formal dresses, a movie together and then a long walk home, just to remind yourselves of the spark that once brought you together. You can talk about how silly and corny it is while doing it to make it more fun, to laugh together.
Get Over Fears Together:
Try to do things that bring you closer to each other, like conquering fears together. Discover what scares you two the most and go on a spree to get over them holding hands. Sit on the edge of a cliff if you two are afraid of heights or watch a horror movie in 3D if horror movies tend make both you scream your lungs out because it would make you trust each other better.
Go To Concerts:
It is not the greatest idea but going to concerts together to yell out with your favorite bands together can make you see more of each other. It is tried and tested. The comfortable space between you two grows and confidence is built. Going to concerts at least thrice a year is a great idea. You can take your friends too if that’s how you roll.
Take Trips:
Take little trips with your significant other; they don’t have to be the most expensive experiences, just a hike around the city carrying a little bag of your clothes and other belongings. Spend a day or two in a nearby hotel to see things differently but with each other. Such little experiences make a great difference.
如何有說服力?
How to Be Persuasive wikihow.com
Stay calm. Keep calm and turn on the charm. Seriously though, if you start shouting or get all whiny, no one is going to listen to you anymore. It becomes like tuning out a small child. Keep calm and friendly in your demeanor and you'll be fine.
Develop an emotional bond.
If you can, it's best to get to know your audience before you try to persuade them of anything. Develop a bond with them, because if they trust you, they'll be much more likely to listen to you. Even if it's just a half hour of trust building, anything helps.
Depending on the situation, how you bond with them may change. A good basic place to start would be to say, "Can I take you out for a cup of coffee?" While you're having coffee, talk to them about what's been going on in their life and the exciting or challenging things they have coming up. Offer them some solid advice and help them if you see an opening. Try not to persuade them during this meeting unless your matter is urgent. Take them out another time at least a week later, catch up on what you talked about previously, then get to work persuading.
Look at where they're from.
Look at where your audience is coming from. Are they poor, rich, middle class? Do they live in the city, suburbs or the country? Do they come from this country or are they from somewhere else? Where do they work? Our background heavily influences how we perceive arguments and what arguments work best on us.
For example, if you're trying to persuade someone who's rich to buy something that looks low-class, sell it as "kitsch" or "Americana". To a lower class person, sell it realistically as a useful item.
Evaluate how they think of themselves.
Do they think of themselves as educated, logical people? Do they view themselves in a more emotional manner, like the hero of their own life story? How they see themselves will heavily influence what type of evidence you show them when you try to persuade them.
Talk with them for a while and do your best to get them to talk about themselves. Listen to how they describe themselves or what they do. Do they emphasize what degree they have? Do they mention their church involvement? Do they talk about their kids?
Another trick to seeing how they process information is to work them into a discussion of politics. See how they talk about the issues. This can reveal a lot about how they think.
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