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周五 / 周六------- 地點: 快提café
新北市板橋區文化路一段387巷10號
(沿著新埔捷運站1號出口左方向前走約100公尺 經過新埔郵局 看到康是美 從信義房屋旁的巷子進入)
周二 ---------- 地點: 丹提咖啡 寶慶店 台北市延平南路107號
(西門捷運站3號出口 往前走10公尺 向右看 就可看到 / 在中山堂對面)
周五(7/26) 1.衝突 2. 幸運符 3.軍中冤魂
請注意周五原聚會點 改至地點: 快提café
新北市板橋區文化路一段387巷10號
(沿著新埔捷運站1號出口左方向前走約100公尺 經過新埔郵局看到康是美 從信義房屋旁的巷子進入)
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1.如何防止衝突
Preventing
Conflict - How to avoid Conflict ? (management study
guide)
First
learn to keep a control on your emotions. Never
ever get too hyper or overreact as it leads you nowhere. Always remember the
other individual you are dealing with might not be as educated as you, might
not be from the same background as you are, but you have no right to ridicule
his opinions. Be a good and a patient listener. Listen carefully what the other
person has to say and then only give your expert comments.
Learn to keep a control on your tongue. One must think before he speaks. Don’t unnecessarily shout on others as it not only spoils the ambience but also brings a lot of negativity around. Soften your voice while interacting with others and learn to adjust with others. Sit with the other person and try to sort out your differences.
Misunderstandings also lead to conflicts, so be very clear and transparent in your communications. Never play with words and the content of your communication has to be specific to avoid conflicts. Do cross check with the speaker whether he has understood everything in the desired form or not, failing which would lead to misunderstandings and eventually to a fight. Effective communication goes a long way in preventing conflicts.
No one wins in a fight and you gain nothing out of it. As they say “Prevention is better than cure”, thus a conflict must be prevented at its early stages as it snatches one’s mental peace and harmony.
Questions:
1. How to deal with conflict in marriage?
Couples arguing and fighting. How to stop the rows?
2. How avoid conflict between lovers?
3. How to deal with conflict in the
workplace?
How to resolve conflicts with colleagues?
4. How to deal with the difficult
colleagues?
5. How to deal with a difficult boss?
6. How do you control your temper when you
fight/argue with someone? Ways to hold your temper?
2. 幸運符
A good luck charm (wise geek)
A good luck charm (wise geek)
A good luck charm is an object which is
supposed to bring good luck to its carrier. Many cultures have beliefs about
good luck charms and talismans which ward off evil and ill-fortune, ranging
from carrying a rabbit's foot to keeping a cage of crickets in the kitchen.
People around the world wear and use good luck charms, even in the case of
individuals who are not particularly superstitious.
Humans have associated auspicious and
inauspicious meanings with various objects for centuries. Certain colors and
shapes, for example, were associated with luck and good fortune, while others
were viewed as ominous. These beliefs have carried over into the present day in
many cultures; in China, for example, red is a lucky color, and people often
wear red on major occasions and keep red objects in their homes for good
fortune. In some European countries, a horseshoe is used as a good luck charm
over the door of a home.
Some good luck charms are worn, such as
charm bracelets and necklaces with amulets. Others may be kept in a home or
vehicle. Prayer cards, religious statues, and various lucky objects may be
positioned in a particularly auspicious location in some regions of the world,
while in others, they may simply be kept readily in view. In some cultures,
objects can only bring good luck if they are blessed by a religious officiant,
or if they are handled in a particular way.
People may also view living organisms as
good luck charms. Certain animal species may be considered auspicious, or
people may believe that animals of a particular color are especially lucky.
Keeping such an animal is supposed to bring good fortune, and the death or
disappearance of the animal may be viewed as a bad sign for its owner. Beliefs
about lucky animals are varied; in some parts of India, for example, people
leave gifts of milk out for snakes, while in Burma, white cats are considered
lucky and blessed by the heavens. White cats may be carried in parades or kept
in businesses as a good luck charm.
1. Do you believe that lucky charms can
bring good luck?
2. Do you believe in lucky charms, amulets
or special protection from bad things?
What's your good luck charm?
3. Can you list good luck symbols from
around the world?
4. Do you believe that black color brings
bad luck ? (or the other colors?)
What is your lucky color? What is you lucky number?
5. What is you lucky animal? Why?
6. Are you superstitious? Why? Or why not?
30,000
Taiwanese protest after 'abused' soldier dies
More than 30,000 people yesterday protested
in Taipei, demanding justice for a corporal who died after being allegedly
abused in the military by his superiors.
Holding placards reading; "We want the
truth" and "Punish the perpetrators", the protesters rallied
outside the Defence Ministry building. They sang spoof military songs mocking
the ministry for imposing improper punishments on military conscripts.
Question:
What is your opinion about abused' soldier
dies case?
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