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愛情成癮症?
What is Love Addiction? | Behavioral Addiction Treatments
Written By: Lizmarie Maldonado, MPH projectknow
Love is typically seen as a positive experience. So, can too much love really be a bad thing? For those struggling with love addiction, the answer is yes.
People with a love addiction are often in love with the feeling of being in love, which triggers compulsive behavior. But falling in love is not an act of magic, as some people believe. Instead, it is a complex physiological process that involves hormones, neurotransmitters, and other bodily chemicals.
Some have theorized about a multi-staged process of falling in love, which begins when a person first feels affection for person. After the initial lust and attraction stages, the two people idealize each other and then attach to each other. If they stay together, their love eventually matures and changes. Shared affection and mutual growth as individuals and as a couple contribute to a constructive relationship.
Some studies have shown that romantic love is a natural addiction that evolved in mammals as a survival mechanism.1 Love is also associated with intense craving, which can lead to negative behaviors.
Woman with symptoms of love addictionPeople with love addiction seem to never get past the initial stages of falling in love; this gives those with a love addiction a sense of purpose and meaning. They become dependent on their objects of affection,1 hoping that these people will somehow complete their lives. The feeling of falling in love creates an emotional intoxication that deepens the addiction. And this feeling of euphoria or intoxication can result simply from the thought of a lover, which creates a craving for this lover, making the beloved the sole focus of the addict.
People addicted to love tend to attract love-avoidant partners because both individuals have a fear of being abandoned and controlled. Love-avoidant individuals are also emotionally unavailable individuals.5 Avoidant partners are afraid of being smothered by their addicted partners, and they are afraid to show their true emotions.
This is why they tend to enter into relationships with people who lack emotional boundaries or have difficulty thinking for themselves. When someone addicted to love and a love-avoidant person get together, their relationship can trigger feelings of helplessness and hopelessness, chaos and dependency.This type of relationship is often rooted in childhood trauma.
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Two drown, four missing in Taiwan seashore tragedy thestandard.com.hk
Seven people were swept into the ocean yesterday from a beach in Nan'ao Township and Neipi beach in Su'ao, both in Yilan Cou一nty in northeastern Taiwan, two of whom were confirmed dead and four missing, while the seventh washed onshore was injured.
According to rescuers, a couple who were touring a sea cave and the owner of an all terrain vehicles business were swept away by a freak wave near the cave on Mystery Beach in Nan'ao Township, CNA reports.
The body of the husband was found, but his wife and the ATV business owner were still unaccounted for.
Later that day, also on the Mystery Beach, huge waves washed away a mother and her son on an ATV, sparking a search mission which was still ongoing as of 7:00 p.m.
On Neipi Beach in Su'ao Township, meanwhile, a girl who was enjoying the beach with her family was swept into sea by a rogue wave, prompting a man to dive in to rescue her.
The girl was washed onshore by waves, but the man had no vital signs when he was rescued and was later pronounced dead in a hospital.
Update: 5 dead 1 missing after rogue waves strike NE Taiwan
Third person reported killed by wave of rogue waves that struck beaches in northeast Taiwan's Yilan County
TAIPEI (Taiwan News) -- Three separate drowning incidents were reported on two beaches in Yilan County within the space of two hours yesterday afternoon (Sept. 2), with the death toll now standing at five as one person remains missing, while one person sustained a minor injury, reported TVBS.
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