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Men
seek beauty, women want wealth By Roger Highfield
The new research confirms that, while
humans may pride themselves on being highly evolved, men really do go for an
attractive mate - though will make do with someone who falls somewhat short of
this ideal - while women - apparently understanding this - adjust their desire
for a "high-quality" mate according to how attractive they perceive
themselves to be. In other words, beautiful women want rich men.
That is the conclusion of research
published today in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences by Peter
Todd, of Indiana University, Lars Penke, of Humboldt University, Berlin,
Barbara Fasolo, of the London School of Economics, and Alison Lenton, of the
University of Edinburgh.
Mr Todd said the problem with earlier work
that suggested that likes attract was that the scientists had simply asked
people about preferences while today's work showed what they actually did in a
real world setting - a commercial speed dating operation with 46 people in
Munich.
After the session, in which each potential
pair of subjects met briefly and recorded their interest in dating one another
again, the researchers compared what they said they were looking for with what
they actually did. In their self-assessments, subjects claimed their ideal mate
would be similar to themselves. However, in the dating session, men and women
acted in line with evolutionary theory.
"We found that what men and women say
they want is not the same as what they actually choose and that the actual
choices made by men and women accord with a rough evolutionary-predicted
trade-off, in this case between men's overall mate value [combining their
wealth and status, family commitment and health] and women's self-perceived
attractiveness," said Mr Todd.
Women dominate this trade-off, he said,
because "men are much less discriminating".
Although people may claim otherwise, beauty
is the key for men, since it signifies "good genes", while women, the
choosier of the sexes, leverage their looks for security, fitness and
commitment.
Questions:
What do you think the title “men seek
beauty, women want wealth”?
Do you agree the idea that men really do go
for an attractive mate/ beauty is the key for men?
Why many beautiful actress want to marry
the rich?
Why do women want to marry the rich men?
How to marry someone who is rich?
Pros and cons of marrying a rich man?
Is marry rich guys’ guaranty of happiness?
Let’s discuss “marriage, money and
happiness”?
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