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Gold Digger
A gold digger is someone who dates another person for financial and material gain. While the term is usually associated with women, it is possible for men to be gold diggers as well. It is not a gender-specific term as it is possible for both men and women to take advantage of someone else’s generosity. Many of these people claim to be in love, or in like, with others when in reality they consider the relationship almost like a business transaction.
There are signs to be aware of so that a gold digger does not dupe you. If the person often asks you to buy him or her things, expects you to pay whenever you go out together or asks you for money, then chances are you have one in your midst. Some people will also go as far as checking your wallet, ATM receipts and bank statements in an effort to find out how much money you have. It is better to open your eyes a bit wider to how she or he acts and consider reevaluating the relationship.
In order to avoid getting caught up with a gold digger, it is important that you pay attention to how the person acts and trust your gut about what his or her intentions are. Even if you are desperate to find love, you should be patient for the type of person who truly wants to be with you instead of someone who is going to use you.
Reasons Why Men Should Avoid Princesses
Because she’s not royalty. Unless you have inside connections to one of the few remaining monarchies in the world, she isn’t a princess anywhere except her childish imagination. Is her first name Princess, or Duchess or even Lady? If the answer is no, she is just a mere mortal, and unless you would enjoy life with someone who deludes themselves into thinking otherwise, then it is better that you figure it out, NOW.
Because princesses are not cost effective. They are expensive. They have constant demands that they fully expect to be satisfied, only they have no intention of paying for any of it. What you will get for turning your wallet into a cushion under her lazy ass is the pleasure of her company; time she will spend making more demands of you.
Because princesses are vindictive. If someone finds it acceptable to have a relationship based on getting their way in all things, it won’t improve when times get tough. In fact, it will get worse. Again, let us put this into the form of a question for you to answer as rationally and honestly as possible.
Q:
How to deal with a gold digger?
How do you know she is a gold digger?
Have your ever date a gold digger?
Do you like a woman who taking advantage of someone else’s generosity?
What are the reasons why men should avoid princesses?
Who should when go shopping or dating with a girlfriend?
What are the signs of princesses?
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How to Deal With People Who Are Emotional Drains by Dorothy J. Sander
Whether it's a co-worker, boss, friend or family member, having an emotionally draining person in your life is no laughing matter. People who don't seem to respect your time, your space or your need and desire to focus your attention on something other than them often don't pick up on the subtle, polite clues you give them.
Set Limits
We've all had a friend, co-worker or relative who seems to have little else to do but talk to us. They call us multiple times a day and refuse to hear us when we tell them we need to hang up. They rehash the same problems over and over but rarely take our good advice.
Setting limits and sticking to them is an excellent tool to use on a regular basis with such people. By telling your chatty friend when she calls that you have 10 minutes to talk and then you have to go back to work, then she cannot use up your morning. Setting the limit is the first step. Then you must follow through. After 10 minutes say good-bye and hang up the phone, even if she ignores you or tries to talk you out of it. Resist getting pulled in by your overly compassionate self. It's OK to set limits. Be kind, but be firm.
Say "No"
Adjust Expectations
Emotionally draining people are people who have emotional limitations, such as low self-esteem. Chances are they have sought you out precisely because you are an accommodating, accepting person. When you begin to make changes in your behavior and begin to set limits they probably are not going to like it. Be prepared for this and resist the pull of guilt or anger to change back to your old pattern of behavior. Instead focus your thoughts and attention on yourself and your own needs and not on theirs.
Interrupt the Talker
Incessant talkers are extremely draining. Most aren't really interested in what the other person has to say nor are they likely to give him much opportunity to talk. As long as the listener pretends he is paying attention and interested, the talker will keep talking.
When you find yourself in this situation it is OK not to follow the "do not interrupt" rule of etiquette. Speak up in a firm, yet calm, voice, at a volume that is loud enough for the talker to hear you over his own voice ans say, "Excuse me. I'm going back to work now.
Q:
How to deal with an over emotional person at work?
Do you have experience dealing with an overly emotional person?
How to deal with people that give you a hard time?
How to deal with a highly sensitive girlfriend/ boyfriend?
How to deal with a demanding co-worker?
How to deal with a lazy co-worker?
How to deal with difficult co-workers/boss?
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