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Are bad experiences a need for human growth? (Jessica Figueroa)
The experiences we consider bad, are necessary to reach a certain level of mature thinking?
I come from a place where life is not the easiest one, lots of poverty, many natural disaster, very unfair when it comes to justice, etc. And now that i got to travel to other countries, sometimes i see people creating a big deal over small things, some are very attach to materialistic things, many young people (mostly girls) behave like people from tv, Im not trying to judge their life style, if they feel happy like that its ok, but i just think many people are missing out whats really important in the human life, which is family, friends, working towards your goals, get the necessary stuff to survive and find the things you enjoy doing the most etc. It's quite simple. Lots of my friends ask me why i'm happy most of the time, and I ask them why do you complain about things you shouldnt complain most of the time?.
The Anti-Model: Learning from Bad Experiences
(by Ariana Friedlander rosabellaconsulting)
Many of the books I’ve been reading lately talk about finding and modeling the people that you strive to be like in life. And that’s a great rule of thumb, generally speaking. But there are times when you’re dealing with people or situations that demonstrate the antithesis of the values you strive to embody.
It’s easy, typical even, to complain about these situations. It’s you’re stupid boss, that idiot presenter, the disrespectful waiter. Everywhere you go, there are moments where you learn from bad experiences, from the anti-model.
The anti-model is that person that does the thing you want to avoid doing. You know you’re in the presence of one when their actions, words and behavior make you shudder (think nail on chalkboard type of reaction here). That feeling can pre-empt a conscious decision not do “that thing.”
Following through on that intention takes continuous effort. First you must identify the negative cause and effect. Then you must be present within yourself to know when you’re crossing the line. From there you have to self-correct.
Anyway, I digress! The point is that having bad experiences, being treated unfairly, feeling disengaged or disrespected. All those moments where you want to complain about someone else. These are golden opportunities to learn. They’re doing something that you want to learn NOT to do. What is it?
That’s just one example of a lesson I have learned from an anti-model. What bad experiences could you learn from? Who’s an anti-model in your life right now? And what are you going to do about it?
Questions:
Are bad experiences a need for human growth?
How to leave the unpleasant past behind?
How to deal with bad experiences?
Why we need to learn from our mistakes?
What are the things that we can learn from a bad boss/ a friend/ anti-models?
How to deal with bad people?
What are the ways to cope when bad things happen?
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