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婚姻是愛情的墳墓
Is marriage a tomb of love? (connectingsingles)
My closest friend called me last night and was crying on the phone because of her husband's abuse. Today she sent me a text message to say: they already signed on the letter to apply for divorce.
They were in love for 10 years before getting married last year. I was the witness for most of the struggles they were been through...It was so sweet when they were students and poor. Now he opens up his own company, the business is running good; the wife is working as a Human Resources Manager for an international company in Vietnam and they can afford a comfortable life...
How they can behave in such a way to each other? Where is the love gone? All the good memories and 11 years old love can't get them back?
Is it true that love just survives when it is half-fulled? Is it true that marriage is a tomb of love???
Comments
People forget to talk to each other, they are all busy with their job, their own problem that they forget that the other is there and can support them.
Just a word, a smile, a touch with the hand and a hug everyday can make amazing things.
But only if it comes from the heart.
People can kill/diminish love with small hurts or neglect that occur over the years until only apathy or resentment remains. At its worst, hate. It's a mistake to think you will always be in love unless you take good care of it. Forgotten birthdays, broken promises, lack of sensitivity, lying, criticism and judgement, "innocent" flirtations, forgeting to say thank you and I love you...so many different ways to cloud the shine of new love.
There is no security that you will keep another's love but be careful you cherish it as the gift that it is. Real love doesn't come around that much in a lifetime. Lust, maybe.
I do think that love can last when two people really care and show it. I just love to see a couple celebrating their golden (50th) wedding anniversay! cheers
Where has the love gone? It's gone where it had to go: people change, love naturally goes somewhere else, seeking other purposes, there's no turning back, that's all. But I wouldn't say marriage is to blame.
I believe in happy marriages, happy married people - and happy single people when it is better to stay single than unhappily married. "The pursuit of happiness", that's what it's called.
But, strangely (to me), there are married couples who can live together for the rest of their lives no matter what... for the weirdest reasons... even after love "has gone somewhere else". Would you "recommend" this type of marriage?
Questions:
Is it true that marriage is a tomb of love?
Do you think that love can last forever?
Do you believe in happy marriages?
What to do when your spouse doesn't want change?
What are the romantic ways to say 'I love you'?
What are the common marriage problems?
How to have a happy marriage?
Places
To See Before You Die: The Ultimate Travel Bucket List By Mark Johanson
Sydney Opera House (Australia)
What do you get when you mix a handful of
orange peels, a bushel of palm fronds and a Maya temple? If you’re Danish
architect Jørn Utzon, you dream up an opera house that will, almost
single-handedly, turn a faraway city into a global capital. The Sydney Opera
House is a landmark on the city skyline, a lighthouse for ferries entering the
harbor, a projection screen for Sydney’s myriad festivals and a barometer of
global artistic talent. Utzon’s dream building is many things, but above all,
it’s an architectural marvel that was built well ahead of its time, far ahead
of the available technology, and one that changed the image of an entire
country.
The Louvre (France) The Louvre (France)
Though Mona Lisa continues to underwhelm
nearly 9 million tourists a year, the world’s most visited museum has some
380,000 other artifacts on display to wow discerning guests. Indeed, from
Ancient Egyptian antiquities to decorative arts of the Middle Ages, this
gargantuan former palace is a perpetual jaw-dropper, and one that’s best
digested in small doses. Highlights include Venus de Milo, Rembrandt’s
self-portraits, Michelangelo’s The Slaves and the chapel of the tomb of
Akhethetep.
Venice Canals (Italy) Venice Canals
(Italy)
If there were a more romantic place on
earth than the canals of Venice, surely we’d see that destination replicated in
every casino the world over. But since there are arguably more faux canals and
Roman statues in global casinos than anything else, it’s safe to say that the
real Venice is the romantic winner. And why wouldn’t it be? Who doesn’t want to
transport themselves into a gondola for a lazy ride around the “floating city”
past its famed Gothic and Byzantine palazzos, bohemian shops and alluring cafes?
This city is an engineering marvel, a marble masterpiece, and a sight that
won’t be around forever.
Taj Mahal (India)Taj Mahal (India)
If ever there was a more beautiful monument
to love than India’s Taj Mahal, it has long since faded to dust. Mughal emperor
Shah Jahan commissioned this immense marble-white mausoleum in memory of his
beloved third wife, Mumtaz Mahal, in 1632. The resulting structure, designed by
Afghan Ustad-Ahmad Lahori, has been called the jewel of Muslim art in India, an
architectural masterpiece and one of the most romantic buildings in the world.
Pyramids of Giza (Egypt) Pyramids of
Giza (Egypt)
Spent your whole life looking at images of
Egypt’s Great Pyramids and figured them to be in the middle of the dessert?
Their proximity to modern Cairo may shock you. But the somewhat urban setting
does not take away from the reality that these massive limestone beacons, and
their guard cat, the Great Sphinx, are more than 4,500 years old (by most
estimates) and still standing as the only surviving wonders of the ancient
world. For modern day time travel, it doesn’t get much better than this.
Questions:
Where the places you want to see before you
die?
Or what are the thing you want to do?
Have you ever travelled to Australia?
Do you like visit museums?
Have you ever travelled to the Louvre or (France)?
Where do you think have most beautiful
views in Taiwan?
What do you think of Egypt? How to survive
in the desert?
What benefits can traveling give?
Where the most romantic places on earth?
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