周六聚會地點: 請注意 週六聚會點改至板橋區光武街48 巷13號
新埔捷運5號出口往前100公尺後右轉小巷看見全聯福利中心再左轉後往前50公尺由48巷進入
700PM-- 9:00PM 連絡電話: 0976217450 Billy
周六聚會 歡迎來開講 希望您出席支持 週六聚會點已改至板橋區光武街48 巷13號 新埔捷運5號出口
朋友們 每周一 說吧!英文讀書會 在桃園有英文練習聚會 地址: 桃園中正路50號 麥當勞 時間:700pm---9:00pm 歡迎您來參加 詳情內容 請點選首頁週ㄧ欄位
你是好人嗎?
「好人不是自己決定的,是自己給人的印象,由別人的感受決定的。」
你是好人嗎?
Are you a good person?
Simple Traits Of A Truly Good Person lifehack by Kyle Robbins
They are honest in relationships.
Relationships can put an amazing amount of
stress and stain on a person, especially when things are going wrong. A nice
person may try to stay in a relationship for too long, attempting to force
something that isn’t there. But a truly good person will be honest in their
relationship and move it forward when things are going well and end it when the
time comes. It’s difficult, if not impossible, to live up to your lofty potential
when your relationship is dragging you down. Be honest about how you feel and
stay loyal when you’ve committed.
They compliment others when deserved.
Good people understand that others need
praise. Complimenting is not only a good thing to do, but a sign that you can
be excited for other people’s triumphs. A truly good person will compliment
when deserved and offer constructive criticism when warranted.
They are polite.
Good people are polite. They show respect
and mind their manners. It’s not to be a showoff or to seem better; they just
truly respect individuals and want to treat them how they want to be treated.
You don’t have to be formal or walk on eggshells to be polite. It’s more a
function of ensuring you act in a way that is fitting for your present
location.
They are kind to everyone.
A good person doesn’t have to like
everyone, but they are at least kind. They look at people for the person they
can be and can look past the present to see the person’s positives.
They are generous with their belongings.
While you don’t physically have to give the
shirt off your back, a truly good person is be willing to be generous. A good
person understands that the things we collect and the money we accumulate are
not worth anything without people to share it with. You don’t have to be a
bleeding heart, giving away your life fortune; rather, be open and generous to
those less fortunate in a time of need.
They think of others.
It’s easy to be selfish and do what’s best
for yourself. Yet, truly good people consider others in their decisions. They
understand that what’s good for them may not always be the best for others.
They don’t have to cater exclusively to others; rather, they understand and take
into consideration how their actions will affect others and are comfortable
with the decision to move forward.
They make the best out of every
situation.
In every situation, there are positives and
negatives. A truly good person will find and focus the positives. That’s not to
say they don’t take the negatives; rather, they find ways to improve and become
better because of the bad things.
Questions:
Are you a good person? What are traits of a
truly good person?
What does loyalty in friendship really
mean?
How to stay loyal to your partner and friends?
Is honesty the best policy? How to be
honest?
How generous are you, really?
How to make people like you?
How to have empathy for someone?
How to become a positive thinker?
躁鬱症
How
to Help Someone with Bipolar Disorder healthline Written by Brian Krans
Caregivers Support
A person suffering from bipolar disorder
has their own obstacles to handle, but caring for someone who is bipolar also
has its own challenges.
Whether you live together or are on the
other side of the planet, there are steps everyone can take to help someone who
is living with bipolar disorder.
Listen
This is one of the most important and
helpful things you can do for someone with bipolar disorder. You don't have to
offer advice or solutions to problems—acceptance and understanding is
oftentimes more effective.
Be a Champion
During certain stages of bipolar disorder,
it can feel like the world is against that person, so letting the person know
you are on his or her side is amazingly reassuring. This could even be assuring
the person that you promise to always keep his or her best interests at heart.
As bipolar disorder often carries feelings
of hopelessness and worthlessness, simply affirming their strengths and
positive qualities goes a long way.
Be Active in Treatment
Part of supporting someone with bipolar
disorder is being there for important events. You won't be going to individual
therapy sessions, but there will be times when you can accompany your friend or
loved one to important doctor's appointments and treatment sessions. Some of
these appointments can be complicated or intimidating, so being there can help
take some of the burden off of the person seeking treatment.
Support, Don't Push
No matter how good your intentions may be,
sometimes a person needs to come to conclusions or learn lessons on his or her
own. While you may feel like your advice should be heeded, you need to keep in
mind that your job is to support the person with bipolar disorder, not save him
or her.
Be Understanding
Any mental condition, especially bipolar
disorder, can be difficult to understand, especially for the person going
through it. He or she may switch moods several times a day and won't have an
explanation for how he or she feels. While difficult for everyone, keep in mind
the person isn't doing it on purpose to be spiteful. The more compassion and
understanding you can offer your loved one, the more positive your influence
will be.
Questions:
What do you think of the recent shooting
event in Taichung?
How to help someone with bipolar disorder?
What are the best ways to support friends
with depression?
How to help a sick person feel better?
What are the ways to comfort a sick friend?
How to help someone with mental illness?
What are the useful ways to deal with
obstacles?
0 意見:
張貼留言