週五(1/23) 1.跟著心走 尋自己的夢2.浪漫愛情故事存在嗎?

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跟著心走 尋自己的夢
Following Your Heart and Dream is Worth Every Risk! Manish Suwal 'Enwil'      enwil.com

There is always hope 1600px X 900pxIt was the second time I regret not working on my dreams. What if I did learn to play the guitar? What if I did start a business? What if I did travel the world?

It was those ‘what if’ questions and thoughts that filled my mind and there was nothing I could do, except to regret my past. I should have worked on my dreams.

Later, when I started thinking about why I didn’t follow my dreams, I realized it was because someone told me I couldn’t do it.  Someone said me it’s very risky and dangerous. Someone stopped me from doing it.

I was afraid that I’d jump on my dreams and would have to regret it later. Not only would I have to regret, but people who said I couldn’t achieve my dream would be right.

So, I always stood on the safe side of the spectrum. I didn’t take any risk and didn’t follow my dreams. Maybe my dream was stupid, or I wouldn’t be able to achieve it.

After analyzing all those moments I’ve come to realization that you should actually follow your dreams and regret later if you have to. Don’t stop pursuing your dreams because someone said you cannot achieve it. Maybe you cannot achieve it, but don’t stop following your dream. Reach to the point where you can say to yourself,”Yes, I can’t achieve this. I’ve made a mistake, but I’ve learned a lot in the process.”

Actually, I doubt if that will ever happen. How can any human being possibly regret following their core dream?

Follow your dream to the extent where you are ready to risk everything. That’s way better than having to regret not following your dreams later. You only have one chance at life and you don’t have time to regret it.

That’s the point where you’ll have changed a lot and learned a lot along the way. You will learn through your mistakes. You won’t waste that time. If it doesn’t work out in the end, you’ll learn why it didn’t work out and how you can make it work. That’s the next big step in pursuing your dream.

If you don’t reach to that point, then you’re unlikely to achieve your dreams. And your dream stays dream forever.

Of course, we doubt ourselves. Will I make it till the end? Will I be a huge failure?

Don’t think about failure and just do it. Maybe you’ll regret doing it later. But you’ll learn a very important lesson in life through the process. A lesson which only experience can give.
Questions:
Do you agree the saying “following your heart and dream is worth every risk”?
How to make your dreams come true?
Do you regret not working on dreams? Do you regret your past? What were you regretted?
How to follow your heart, and just be yourself?
Why are we afraid to make mistakes?
Why we all have fear of failure?
How to conquer the fear of failure?


浪漫愛情故事存在嗎?
Are Romantic Movies Really Ideal Love Stories? Features By Kevin Carr
         
Everyone enjoys a good love story, don’t they?

They may not be the highest-grossing movies of all time (if James Cameron isn’t directing, that is), but romantic movies can elicit some strong emotional responses when done right. Watching passion overcome adversity, seeing two people connect on a profound level, witnessing a giant ship sinking in icy waters. The heartstrings tremble, they also seem to set up impossible romantic ideals for us mere mortals to live up to.

With the potential relationship pitfalls that come from movie expectations, I got to thinking… are romantic movies really the best love stories?

The Answer: Not at all. Most are actually pretty messed up.

Romantic dramas are a different story. If you want to keep a relationship going, don’t plan your relationship like one of these movies. The consequences can be quite dire.

It’s not surprising to learn that cheating is a bad thing for relationships. Unfortunately, it also appears to be standard human behavior. More than half of men and women admit to being unfaithful in at least one relationship. When infidelity happens in a marriage, it results in divorce about one-third of the time. So while these figures show that people can be forgiving, cheating happens. A lot. However, they still happen in love stories more than in real life.

Most of the time, the lovers don’t end up together

Once again referring to the top 20 grossing romance dramas, the lovers don’t even end up together by the end of the film. The couples figuratively ride off into the sunset in only six of these movies (Pearl Harbor, Jerry Maguire, The Vow, Indecent Proposal, Dear John, and Safe Haven). In An Officer and a Gentleman, the characters literally walk off into the sunset, which must count for something.

The Notebook is a slightly different story, considering the lovers don’t actually end up together until after the story is told. And even then, she can’t remember a damn thing about him in the end, anyway. How’s that for irony? Nicholas Sparks, you devil!

That leaves 12 of these movies – amounting to 60% – in which the lovers’ time together is limited in some way. And just because this list is for films made since 1980 doesn’t mean the trend started there. Some of the best-known historical romances feature the main characters going their separate ways. From Gone with the Wind in which Rhett Butler doesn’t give a damn to Casablanca (which again features some infidelity) in which Ilsa (Ingrid Bergman) leaves Rick (Humphrey Bogart) and Renault (Claude Rains) to live happily ever after together.



In fact, romantic dramas don’t just make a point to split characters up. They keep them apart through much of the movie, as you’ll see in the wildly popular Doctor Zhivago, as well as the more recent Top 20 films like Cold Mountain and Legends of the Fall.
Questions:
Are Romantic Movies Really Ideal Love Stories
Do believe in Love movie Stories?
What kind of movies you enjoy most?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Why people Love Fairy Tales?
Why does every movie have a happy ending?
What are the reasons K-dramas so popular?
How to Find Your One True Love?

How to know if you’re in Love? 


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