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如何選擇工作?

How to Choose the Right Career
(Edited by Mr handsome, Teresa)
Choosing the right career can be difficult, but having a defined career direction will help you with getting a job. But with hard work you can accomplish that goal. Here are some tips that can help you.
 
1. Test your skills.
If you're not sure what career you want, you might not be taking into account skills that you already have. Everybody is good at something, so try and brainstorm and write a list of as many of your qualities as you can. Think about factors like whether you prefer working alone or with others, and how these qualities can translate into a job.
 
2. Know what your skills are.
Ask family and friends what they think you're good at, because you may have skills that you are not even aware of. You could also try speaking to a career adviser. They will help you assess your skills and personality and enable you to develop ideas about careers options you hadn't thought of before.
 
3.Talk to your family and friends about your decision.
Take the time to really consider and decide what your priorities are. Think about factors like your expected salary, the distance you want to travel and whether a job offers long-term security. If you're a visual person you can try making a collage of your ideal visions for your future career. Also consider the likelihood of finding employment in your chosen area. Many people know deep down what their dream job would be, but deny it because they think it would be too difficult to achieve, or because they're seeking approval from family or society.
4. List out your priorities.
Decide whether you want to aim for a goal which may be risky and difficult to achieve, or choose a 'safer' option that offers more security--such as a job for which an expensive degree from a domestic institution is legally required. And remember that there may be many related jobs in your area of interest. If you're passionate about, say, football, it may not be realistic to aim to be a professional footballer, but there are lots of other jobs in the sports industry which may be suitable.
5.Look for a job that suits you.
Once you have an idea of what line of work you want to be in, it's important to do lots of research. Find out how active the jobs market is in that industry, and how the recruitment process usually works. Research local organisations to see if they have any opportunities for you to do the type of work you've decided on.
 
6. Look for job opportunities.
You may need some additional training or education before you can start work in your chosen field. Contact training bodies in your area and find out if there is any free or subsidized training available. Or you may have to gain some unpaid experience before you can start fully paid work. This can be done in the form of volunteering, internships and work experience.
Questions:
 
1. Does a college degree guarantee you a good job?
 
Will going to a top university guarantee you a good job?
 
2. Is it a good idea talk bout expected salary during the job interview?
 
When and how to discuss salary during an interview?
 
3. What are your priorities in looking for a job?(ex. salary/distance)
4. What is your dream job?
 
5. How to get a great job today?

 

招親市集
China’s Bizarre Marriage Market ("life is messy")
Blind dates are bad enough but when your own parents take to the streets and advertise your eternal loneliness on public noticeboards, that’s when things probably start to get really bleak.

In a sort of online dating nightmare come to life, every weekend in Shanghai at the north end of People’s Park, up to a thousand parents gather at the “Marriage Market”, hoping to find a spouse for their adult children.

Female, born 1981, 1.62 meters tall, bachelor’s degree, project director at a foreign company, monthly salary above RMB 10,000, looking for someone born between 1974 and 1982, bachelor’s degree or above with a sense of responsibility for the family.”

Short and sweet; a piece of paper with a few key details (age and salary) and the requirements for a suitable match is all that’s needed to irreparably embarrass your single child. Taking the art of matchmaking to new levels, aging parents will congregate at the marriage market in search for a potential spouse, often without the consent of their child.

My daughter doesn’t approve of me coming here — I stole a photo of her to bring to the market,” said one father who regularly visits the market and admits he’s sent his daughter on twelve different blind dates with men he found through the market. Shockingly, so far none of the dates have worked out; apparently a common outcome of the market matchmaking practice.

The Marriage Market has been attracting parents since it was founded in 1996. In an increasingly modernizing China, where young adults have busier schedules and less traditional views on marriage than their parents, the Marriage Market has become a hugely popular hub for meddling moms and pops.

"If I die with my daughter unmarried, I cannot close my eyes," said the mother of a 28-year-old daughter, who is a project manager at a foreign company and thinks the fact that her mother comes to the market is “embarrassing”.
 

Questions:
1. What do you think about marriage market?
2. What do you think about matchmaking?
What do you think of blind dates?
3. How to meet your future spouse?
Where can one find a future spouse?
4. Ways to find the right partner or spouse?
5. Your opinion about online dating: Is good to find future spouse on internet?


蘋果調查:491萬求偶大軍 婚仲商機上億


【都會中心╱綜合報導】小說《徵婚啟事》描寫主角杜家珍與42名男子接力相親,揭露現代人渴婚的心情,改編成舞台劇、電影引發廣大迴響。10多年後,總數近491萬人的「杜家珍們」改加入交友平台、婚仲機構,製造上億元的「婚仲商機」。

據內政部2012年統計,台灣2049歲適婚女性543萬人,未婚比率40%,約217萬人;適婚男性近549萬人,未婚比率更接近50%,為274萬人;但業界公認的前三大婚仲公司,會員總數還不到13萬人,月老銀行公關經理曹雅芳認為:「至少還有好幾倍成長空間。」

年繳4萬才有機會

曹雅芳分析,婚姻仲介提供的交友平台,大致分為網路、一對一配對以及大型聯誼等類型;入會除須繳交數千到數萬元不等的年費外,每次聯誼、配對都要另外收費,以前三大業者的會員數計算,「婚仲商機」粗估達上億元。

《蘋果》記者前往另一家業者「相親銀行」體驗,一進門就看到10多對男女在玻璃隔間裡聊天,空間小到連對方臉上的痘疤都看得一清二楚。《蘋果》記者前後花了15分鐘,填寫了滿滿4頁的個人電腦資料,並簽下「未婚切結書」取得入會資格,隨即與相親秘書面談。

相親秘書詳細說明收費標準:網路相親6個月收費2000元(加入一對一可免費);一對一相親每月收費3250元、需一次繳足一年費用;此外,每次安排一對一相親另加收200元,至少預繳10次;全部算下來,一年起碼要花41千元,才有機會步上紅毯。


 

 
 

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