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Longshan Temple draws big crowd eager to
sponsor lamps for good health or fortune ftv
Early this morning, Longshan Temple began
processing people eager to sponsor temple lamps. Many began waiting as long as
a month ago, as they believe sponsoring these lamps can bring them good fortune
or health.
At six o’clock, Taipei’s Longshan Temple began
accepting people to sponsor temple lamps. The first person to apply for a lamp
was Mr. Yang who works in the financial industry.
Last night we came. About a month ago, I
asked my family to come here first and begin waiting.
Today was the first day of lighting lamps
and Longshan Temple was packed with visitors. Many wanted to light medicine
lamps to pray for health, while others chose lamps for wealth. These lamps were
in such demand that some came more than a month ago to begin waiting in line.
In addition to a huge line of people
waiting patiently, reporters have witnessed hawkers selling their place in
line. With more than 1000 people in line, tempers began to flare though there
was little the temple could do to alleviate the situation.
Chang Hsue-lin
Longshan Temple Director
For those that began waiting a month ago,
we issued 1,000 numbers, and if these we all issued by today, I told people
come back the next day. This is the only way I could control the situation.
Each day up to 1,000 people are allowed to
choose lights in the temple, and based upon past practice, the first day of the
lighting an additional 300 people are permitted, as processing this many people
in one day may take an entire day with many waiting long into the night.
Questions:
What do you think about “the activity of sponsor
lamps for good health or fortune?
Do you believe that sponsoring these lamps
can bring them good fortune or health?
What do you think about Longshank Temple or
other temples in Taiwan?
How to get rid of bad luck? How to Have
Good Luck?
Do you believe in superstitions why or why not?
List of superstitions around the world?
Are you willing waiting long to do something?
觀察受歡迎的人
Learning By Observing The Behavior Of Popular People Vijai P. Sharma, Ph.D
If you want to become an interesting person, get interested in people you come in contact with.
experts believe that to "win" other people over to your side, you have to get on theirs first. How you make them feel about themselves is more important to them than your personal charisma and self-confidence. But, the interest in other people must be genuine. Faking or superficial interest doesn't cut it.
Psychologist Bernardo Carducci identifies eight habits or typical behaviors of the socially adept. Socially adept people typically do the following:
1. They invest time in others. They sharpen their social skills and increase their popularity by spending a lot of time with others. They often go out with others, invite them to their home, go to theirs and participate in various social activities. If you don't invest the time, you don't get the results.
2. They expect others to be fair and friendly towards them. They don't worry that about "proving" how witty and interesting they are. They believe that others will be gracious and forgiving of their minor faults and "goof ups." They think positive about others and hence come across as positive persons to others.
3. They direct their attention outward rather than onto themselves. They scan the social scene to guide their actions. They observe others and listen actively, which gives them plenty of leads regarding what will be interesting and appealing to them.
4. They know when to step in and step out of a conversation. To join in, they look for a lull in a conversation and ask appropriate questions or elaborate on what someone has already said. They make comments that are connected to what is being said, as opposed to an amateur who throws in a statement that tends to disrupt the conversation. They know when to stop so someone else can get a chance to chime in.
5. They glide over a "miss" and expect to "hit" next time. For example, when the socially adept try to join in on a conversation and find that they are being ignored or unwelcome, they don't regard it as a rejection or a personal failure. Like accomplished batsmen, they assume that with so many strikes, there will be some misses along with many hits.
6. They take hold of their negative emotions such as anger, disappointments and fears. When they experience negative feelings, they quickly shift their attention to the more positive aspects of the situation. They earn the admiration of others for demonstrating control over their emotions.
7. They humor people. They want everyone around them to have a good time. They keep a few jokes and stories handy for various occasions.
(Copyright 2000, Mind Publications mindpub.com)
Questiopns:
How to observe the behavior of others?
Do you invest time in others?
What are the benefits of hanging around with positive people?
How to make friends?
Do you like contact with people? How to improve social skills?
What are the social activities you like?
Can you hold negative emotions such as anger, disappointments and fears?
Are you a humor person? Are you a good jokes teller?
李昌鈺教你觀察力：從翻垃圾桶起
‧商業周刊 2014/11/21
他可以從垃圾桶裡看出你的個性，推敲出你一天的作息；他一天只睡個4小時，還可以穿梭在7場專案會議，毫無窒礙。他是國際鑑識專家李昌鈺。
【文╱田習如】
他可以從垃圾桶裡看出你的個性，推敲出你一天的作息；他一天只睡個4小時，還可以穿梭在7場專案會議，毫無窒礙。他是國際鑑識專家李昌鈺。
他說，每天早上一起床，就需要用到觀察力。從窗外露珠、行人判斷天氣，然後推想自己整天的活動，決定該怎麼穿著；同樣的，打開冰箱考慮吃什麼早餐、上班開會的對象是否睡飽或有哪些表情，如果也善用觀察力，就可以用最準確、最有效率的方式把事情做好。
而一般人最容易忽視的地方，反而可能是資訊最多的所在，「垃圾桶」就是最好的情報蒐集站。
「垃圾桶就像一本歷史書，」他解釋，每一層的垃圾顯示出不同的時間順序，每件垃圾也代表一個活動，越上層發生的時間越近，因此辦案時絕不能把垃圾桶的東西一古腦倒出來；而從一張紙是否只寫一兩字就丟棄、是否揉碎等這類細節，也可以推斷當事人的個性是否浪費、大而化之。
他每天回家看垃圾桶，就能推斷出太太宋妙娟一天做了些什麼事情，準確度讓他太太開玩笑的懷疑是否裝了監視器。
他這樣看外貌
他這樣看外貌
從眼皮，就知道你想什麼
不僅看事，李昌鈺更會看人。
他說，觀察人的表情要分左臉、右臉，因為左臉是由主管感性的右腦控制，而右臉則由主管理性的左腦控制，從兩邊的臉色、肌肉、眼皮變化，對照談話內容，可以推論其心思，以及是否言不由衷。
前年，中國中央電視台曾有節目邀李昌鈺當場猜測，10位穿便服的來賓中有哪一位是真的警察，結果他用排除法篩選、觀察外貌，果然推斷正確。
警察專校助理教授李承龍，是李昌鈺指導的第一個台灣博士生，他說，到李昌鈺家裡討論博士論文時，發現這位老師對論文內容和上次討論的進度記得比學生還清楚，而且檔案架上還有一個寫著他名字的卷宗，反映李昌鈺做事情的條理。
許多上了年紀的朋友會擔心老年失智症，向李昌鈺討教如何保持記憶力，他的建議是「簡化」。例如養成把東西放在固定地方的習慣，談話
做事時要聚焦，一次做好一件事，就不會忘東忘西，同時也要多閱讀、動腦筋思考。
他這樣練腦力
腦袋分層，歸納記憶關鍵點
他也說「人的腦筋就像電腦，東西存在哪裡有一定位置，歸檔得好就找得到」，他會把腦袋分層，每件事歸納出最易記住的關鍵點，需要時就能很快找到再做聯想，開會時邊談邊推想下一個話題，在腦海中先把資訊抓出來準備好。
埋首刑事鑑識工作已半個世紀的李昌鈺，不再到第一線辦案，但依然接下許多「冷案」的調查。
所謂「冷案」，是指花了許多年仍無法偵破的舊案，李昌鈺曾經靠著重新檢視物證、用新科技化驗，偵破了50年前的謀殺少女案。他在美國紐海文大學成立的研究院，如今是聯邦政府支持的「國家冷案中心」。
20多年前，李昌鈺便建議當時警察大學校長顏世錫，成立鑑識科學和電腦犯罪科系，如今這兩個都是國際最新、最熱門的領域。台灣的刑事鑑識系統，也是在他多次回台的推動下成形。
曾有機會在美國政壇更上一層樓，也有機會靠「神探」發大財的李昌鈺，對權力、財富的興趣不高，「只有腦子裡的知識是別人拿不走的，」他說。
龍山寺點燈
台北萬華龍山寺6日清晨6點開始受理點光明燈，但其實信眾早在一個月前，就用塑膠椅開始排隊卡位，龍山寺的塑膠椅就排了足足五圈，都是為了搶點祈求健康的藥師燈，或者學業順利的文昌燈。
清晨六點一到，台北萬華龍山寺開放信眾進場點光明燈，搶到頭香的是從事金融業的楊先生。
[[排隊點光明燈信眾]]
“昨天晚上就過來，前一個月都是請我家人先在這邊等”
正式點燈這一天，龍山寺已水洩不通，大家來都是想點祈求健康的藥師燈，以及財神燈。所以早在一個月前，就有人來排隊。
記者實地觀察，除了發現有大批的代排部隊，甚至還有疑似黃牛兜售號碼佔位置。眼看超過了廟方可以消化的1000名，民眾火氣越來越大。廟方表示無奈。
[[龍山寺組長 張雪玲]]
“我如果一個月前看到他們來排，我就發一千號出去，我就說今天第一千號發完再來的人就發第二天，請問一下這樣，我如何控管”
除了每天開放一千名，廟方也會依循往例，在首日多加300名，預估要處理完1300名，就可能得通宵達旦。
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