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Stop Looking For 'The One,' Start Looking For Someone Who Understands You
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Searching is active and it takes a lot of time -- you have more important things to focus on.
I understand that finding someone you love is difficult, and because it’s difficult, you feel the need to dedicate time to finding that special someone. However, actively searching -- dedicating significant time to meeting new people for the hopes of finding the love of your life -- is pretty much futile.
This is not to say you should avoid meeting new people and giving yourselves a chance to get to know each other, but you shouldn’t make that the focus of your life.
There are surely other things you could be doing and working on. We all love the idea of dedicating our lives to one incredible individual, but you can’t dedicate your life to the search itself. You’re betting your happiness on an uncertainty and wasting valuable time.
If you do find the right one, you likely won’t be ready for it -- and that’s the worst thing that could ever happen to you.
I remember being younger and dreaming about meeting the perfect girl -- I was always a romantic. I knew I’d find the love of my life. What I didn’t realize is that I wouldn’t be ready to love her the way she deserved to be loved.
It’s almost like a bad joke; we spend so much time trying to find someone to love and when we do, half the time we aren’t yet capable of dedicating ourselves in the way necessary.
Finding the right one too soon will break your heart. It will change the way you understand love and the way you look at the world.
Finding the love of your life before you’re mature enough to handle such a relationship will likely be the best and worst thing that ever happens to you.
You’ll lose the love of your life, but you’ll come out much stronger and wiser for it.
We live in a world in which nobody seems to truly understand anybody.
Why not explore how well you can actually get to know someone? People seem to think that getting to know someone is easy -- you just spend time with that person and you automatically learn all you need to know. Unfortunately, it’s not that easy; you need to understand what it is you’re looking for.
Most of the relationships we have in our lives -- not just romantic relationships, but relationships of all kinds -- are shallow. We rarely get to know someone on the deepest of levels.
A lot of the time I believe it’s because some people just don’t click -- they don’t trust each other enough to open up to the other. But most of the time, I feel it’s because most people don’t care enough to ask the right questions.
Most of us just aren’t curious enough about other people. Hell, most conversations consist of one person talking and the other simply waiting to respond. Rarely do people bother to listen.
Whenever you actively look for something, how often do you actually end up finding it?
It’s when we don’t bother searching that things seem to fall into our laps. We’ve all experienced this phenomenon before. We spend hours searching for our passports, our keys, a specific document we managed to misplace.
We search and search and search until we run out of time. Then, the next day, we happen to stumble on whatever it is that we were searching for with no effort at all.
When you’re searching for something, or someone, you are going about with a set of already established pretenses or beliefs. You think you know the type of person you are looking for.
You think you know where you are most likely to find him or her. You think you have it all figured out, but then life surprises you. You meet someone more incredible than you could have ever imagined and you end up meeting him or her in the most unlikely fashion. Welcome to life.
Have you ever stopped to think about whether or not you’re the right person for the person you believe is the right person for you?
You may one day be, but are you that right person right now? It’s one thing not to be mature enough to nurture a loving relationship, and it’s another not to be the person the love of your life needs or deserves.
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Rent-a-Grandma - Business Owl | Business Ideas
Business Owl
Tired of hiring unreliable teenage babysitters? Rent-a-Grandma is a business idea which will appeal to you. Former Los Angeles teacher Todd Pliss came up with this novel business idea after hearing about the difficulties the parents of his students had with finding good help. Rent-a-Grandma is a runaway success, with franchises opening thick and fast across the United States.
What is Rent-a-Grandma?
Rent-a-Grandma describes itself as a one-stop shop for all your domestic staffing needs. Rent-a-Grandma provides nannies, household maintenance staff, large estate maintenance staff and specialised services such as chefs, personal assistants, elderly care and pet care.
Rent-a-Grandma’s trusted domestic helpers are carefully screened, mature women who take their chores seriously – no tweeting while they’re supposed to be watching the kids.
How does Rent-a-Grandma work?
Go to the Rent-a-Grandma website, create a profile and click ‘Find a Grandma’. Then, enter your postal code and the type of help you require and browse the list of grandmas in your area. Find a nanny you like and contact them directly.
Rent-a-Grandpa washingtonpost
Rent-a-Grandma is expanding its winning business idea to include Rent-a-Grandpa– a service connecting clients looking for handy work with grandpas.
These college students moonlight as ‘grandkids’ for hire. Seniors love it.
When Andrew Parker’s grandfather began suffering from dementia three years ago, his grandmother had to start taking care of the house and caring for him. It was hard work, and one day, Parker got the idea to hire a college student to help out. “I said, ‘Hey, can you go hang out with my grandfather and make him a sandwich or something? I’ll pay you, lets see how it goes.”
His grandfather loved it. And more importantly, so did his grandmother. For a few hours, he said, “She got to go do her own thing.”
It got Parker thinking. “There’s so many seniors and so many college students out there.” So in January, the 30-year-old Miami, FL resident launched a business called Papa, after his name for his grandfather. It connects students with seniors for light housekeeping or driving chores, but the company’s real goal is in its slogan: “Grandkids on-Demand.”
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