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5 Ways To Deal With People Who Don't Like You                Lux Ganzon    theprayingwoman

But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you- Matthew 5:44

Dealing with critics can be a big challenge.  It is hard, especially when they say things that hit below the belt—too personal and too sensitive a matter. How do you go on with life without letting critics get you down?

Here are 5 Ways To Deal With People Who Do Not Like You:

Understand them
Sometimes it’s because they have issues with themselves that they either refuse to resolve or maybe even refuse to acknowledge .  What they hate about you 1.) could be the one thing they hate about themselves, or 2.) what they hate about you is really what they secretly admire about you.  So when they have a problem with you, understand that it is nothing personal with you.  It is their own personal issues.  Try to walk a mile in their shoes and see things from their perspective.  Instead of hating them you should feel sorry for them.

Be kind to them 
Probably the hardest, yet the most character-defining thing you can do is to be kind to people who are unkind to you.  Showing kindness is not dependent on what you receive from people.  Showing kindness depends on your character.  What you do or say to others does not define them…it defines you.  Remember that how they see and treat you is a reflection and extension of how they see and treat themselves.  Most unkind people are harsh with themselves.  So they extend it to others around them.

Pray for them 
Jesus Himself has had His share of critics and haters.  He did not only ignore them and continued with His mission, He also prayed for them.  He orders us to do the same; pray for those who persecute you.  The curses you say towards others can come back to you, but so can the blessings.  He also said that when you offer peace and the other person does not accept it, peace would come back to you.  There is no losing on your part.

Ignore them
Some people will always have something to say no matter what.  There’s no pleasing them.  The best, first and simplest way to deal with them is not to mind what they have to say.  Go on with your life.  They will eventually stop when they see that you are indestructible.

Don’t Hate Them
Don’t hate them.  Most of all, don’t let their hate turn you into a hater yourself. Forgive them, Pray for them, Be kind to them, and Love them!
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明星嫁豪門/嫁給錢錯了嗎?
Actress Ady An annouces wedding surprise!   dramafever.com

Ady An is reportedly to have rejected businessmen as possible suitors because she is independently wealthy and has her own successful career.

Her fans are therefore stunned when Ady suddenly announced, on March 15, that she has married Chinese tycoon, Chen Ronglian, the 40-year-old CEO of Macau-based Tak Chun Group. They registered their marriage in Taipei and will hold weddings in Taiwan and Hawaii, according to news reports.

Apparently the self-made entrepreneur's persistence finally melted the 36-year-old beauty's resolve. After his relentless pursuit for a year, the couple started dating in 2014. Chen also helped Ady get through the tragic loss, in 2015, of her beloved friend and fellow-actor Shone An (Go, Single Lady). The two-year courtship stayed low-keyed and has resulted in the joyful news.

Nothing wrong with marrying for money           By Helen travel.cnn.com

In today’s love and marriage market, rich, single men are great catches. Therefore, targeting rich second-generation men is a cost-effective option for celebrities.

Going for the rich second generation just makes sense

The rich, single young men in possession of a good fortune and good sense are ideal husbands for female pop stars.

In contrast to rags-to-riches billionaires who started from scratch and built up their fortunes themselves, rich second-generation young men are born to be wealthy and privileged.

Most are well educated, even if they failed to pass entrance examinations to Chinese universities, with more than enough money to afford studying abroad.

Being young, energetic and fashionable, the rich second generation are socialites, personable public figures who lead affluent lives similar to those of of the celebrity women who catch them.

The rich second generation are also, on the whole, open-minded; specifically they won’t ask their female partners to give up their entertainment careers once married, as second-generation rich themselves are fond of the media limelight.

For female pop stars, love and marriage with the rich second generation will not be any obstacle to their careers, it will generally help get more media attention. And what star could argue with that? 

Throw a rock, hit a rich second generation

In terms of the nature of their work, female pop stars are more likely to associate and have relationships with the rich second-generation men.

Rising Chinese actor Sung Honglei in an interview once described an embarrassing blind date that never even got off the ground when his date, a doctor, stood him up because she was "scared by Sun’s social status."

Similarly, female pop stars are seen as unattainable for ordinary men.

The chance that a female pop star will encounter an ordinary white-collar worker of marriageable age is slim, while the chance of meeting a rich second-generation single man is good.
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