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如何解讀別人的心思
Ways To Read Someone’s Mind Easily By Jesse Herman spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com
Many of us think of reading somebody else’s mind as a sort of control mechanism. If you can figure out their next move, you can manipulate them or anticipate their future actions. In reality, it can be far more practical and personal.
1) Body Language
Body language is another clear indication as to what somebody is thinking. If their forehead is creased they are stressed. How are they sitting or standing; what is their posture?
You can learn a lot about a person’s mental state from their body language, posture, and energy levels.
2) Watch their breath
How are they breathing? If somebody breathes through the base of their spine it means they are relaxed. If ones breathe is shallow, they are tense. If you want to know someone’s mental state, observe their breath.
If their breathing is choppy, they are most likely nervous which means they don’t want you to know something. They may be shy, anxious, or hiding something from you. If someone has a relaxed breath, you know that their mental state is calm which typically means they are being truthful.
3) Read their eyes
The eyes can also be revealing. The pupil is said to be a portal to the mind. Some studies have shown that when one thinks hard, pupils dilate. Interestingly, when the brain is overloaded the pupils will constrict.
Also with pupils, when you first meet someone they widen. If they widen but then constrict, it means they are not really interested in you. If the remain dilated, it means they are excited to be with you.
4) Listen to their tone of voice. Not the words, their tone.
The tone of voice can also tell everything. The speed of somebodies voice. Slow is calm, fast in nervous. The words are not as important as the energy behind them. This does not even need to be explained because you know what a certain tone means. But sometimes we must really tune in and listen to get answers.
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What are the ways to read someone’s mind?
Do you want to read someone's mind?
Is good or bad if you could read someone’s mind?
What are the ways to read body language?
How to tell if someone is being honest?
How to deal with dishonest people?
交談中的錯誤
The Most Common Mistakes in a Conversation
Lianne Martha Maiquez Laroya
Do you ask too many questions?
The conversation sounds like a police interrogation with you asking too many questions and your partner scrambles to answer all of them. As a result, connection is made and no relationship is built.
Solution: Follow this structure:
a. Ask a general question.
b. Consider his answer.
c. Give feedback about his answer and then answer the question you’ve asked.
d. Wait for him to respond. If he replies with a question, good. If he replies with a statement, repeat what he said and wait for him to elaborate.
Do you hog the spotlight?
You walk way too much: about yourself, your job, your dreams and frustrations. Pretty soon, the person you’re talking too feels like he just attended a whole-day seminar about you.
Solution: Ask for your partner’s opinion.
– “My favorite topic is about personal finance. How about you?”
Do you have to be right all the time?
Every conversation seems like a battlefield to you. You have to make everyone agree with what you have to say, so you never back down. You’re always right, right?
Solution: Accept the fact that everyone is entitled to his own opinions. You don’t need to force them into agreeing with you—they’ll just choose to walk away from you instead. Arrogance causes some of these common mistakes in a conversation to happen. Stay humble.
Do you talk about awkward topics with a person you barely know?
“Hey, I just met you, but listen to me talk about my past relationships, my nagging digestive problems and my balding hair.”
Solution: Stay away from topics involving religion, sex, politics and negativity, especially when you’ve just become acquainted with someone. Focus on safe topics such as hobbies, common interests and the topic of the conference you’re in
Are you rude to the person you’re talking to?
You think you’re better than your talking partner so you don’t think about respecting their opinions. Sure, you use polite language and you mind your manners, but your words offend and your attitude challenges them.
Solution: How you communicate is better than what you communicate. Before you aim to communicate, aim to respect first.
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