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My Egg Boy
A 32 years old single woman longs for love. An 183 days old frozen egg longs to be born. She fights flat out to look for a right man, or at least, a right sperm. Stored in liquid nitrogen,he eagerly waits to be born every day. They are each other's closest companion, and they are waiting for a chance of life. She falls in love with a man and goes to Nordic with this guy to make sure that he is the right person - - He falls in love with a frozen sperm and wishes to give her a big real hug one day. Can he be born? Will her love be a happy ending?
The REAL reason why women are freezing their eggs dailymail.co.uk
More women than ever are freezing their eggs as part of 'lifestyle choice'
It has previously been blamed on busy women putting their careers first
New research suggests women throw themselves into it as a distraction
Suggests they are unwilling to settle for anything but the perfect father
They are often portrayed as hard-hearted individuals who are putting motherhood on hold in order to climb the career ladder.
But women who freeze their eggs are actually waiting for a man who is perfect father material to come along.
Researcher Kylie Baldwin, who asked a group of women why they froze their eggs, said: 'I think they were looking for a hands-on father.
'And it was the absence of this particular type of potential father, not just the absence of any partner, that led them to freeze the eggs.
Egg freezing was introduced to give cancer patients the possibility of still having children but it is becoming increasingly common for lifestyle reasons
'It's not just about not having the right partner, it's about having the right dad for their child.'
Interestingly, some of the women were in a relationships – but froze their eggs because they didn't believe their partner was father material and were hoping someone better would come along.
Egg freezing was introduced to give cancer patients who face the risk of being left infertile by their treatment the possibility of still having children later in life.
But it is becoming increasingly common for lifestyle reasons and business is booming.
Q:
“When a woman is in a dilemma between love and career’ how to make chose?
Dose love always has a happy ending?
How to make sure that he or she is the right person for you?
What are the reasons that why women are freezing their eggs?
Why many women that they are unwilling to settle?
Do you think that mordent life make us change our 'lifestyle choice'?
How to find an ideal lover?
視整個宇宙、為自己的老師
Learn from Every Experience You Have Ever Had By Harrison Barnes
One of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to learn from every single experience you have ever had. Each and every day you are having experiences, and you choose what to do with them. The wisest people are the ones who see every experience as an opportunity to learn. Smart people can transform even the smallest experiences into lessons that drive them to become better at everything they undertake in the future. You, too, can learn from your experiences and, in so doing, benefit tremendously.
In every experience, there are things that did and did not work for you. Your objective is to learn from what happened. The more you learn from your experiences, the more effective you will be at whatever you do in your career and life.
Three Masters! moralstories26.com
Best Moral Stories for Ways to Learn in Life Once there was a great Sufi saint. In his last days, someone asked him about his master.
Saint said, “I had thousands and thousands of masters and if i even try to tell you about each of them, it will take months or years and it is too late for that. But since you asked i will certainly tell you about three master..”
# Among three of them One master was a Thief.
Once while wandering around in a desert i got lost and till i found a way and reached village it was too late. Everything was closed and there was no one outside.
At last i found a man who was trying to make hole in a wall. I went to ward him asked him if i could find a place to stay. He replied to that it will be difficult to find a place to stay at this time of night but you cans tay with me, if its ok with you to stay with a thief. I stayed with him for a month.
Each night he would say me that, “I am going to work. You can rest and pray.”
When he came back i would ask him, “Did you get anything today?”
He would reply, “No not tonight but tomorrow i will try again. God Willing.”
Even after daily disappointment he never lost hope and he was always happy.
When i was meditating for years and still nothing changed, many moments came where i would get so desperate and hopeless that i thought of leaving all this and then suddenly i would remember words of that thief that, “God willing, Tomorrow it is going to happen. ”
# Second master was a Dog
Once i was going along side of a river, there i saw a dog who was very thirsty. I saw that as dog looked into river to drink water, it saw his own image and got afraid. Seeing his own reflection dog barked and ran away. But because dog was too thirsty he would come back. This happened many time but finally despite his fear, dog jumped into water.
Seeing this i knew that it was a message from God. It means that one has to go forward despite all of his fears.
# Third master was Little boy
As i entered a town i saw a little kid carrying a lit candle in his hands.
I asked him, “Have you lit this candle yourself? ”
He replied, “Yes sir.”
I said, “There was time when candle was not lit and when it was lit but can you show me the source from which light came?”
Boy laughed and blew out the candle and said ,”You have seen light go? can you tell me where it had gone?? ”
Boy continued, “Ok, i will tell you it had gone to the same place where it emerged. It had returned to the source.”
This shattered my ego and at that moment i felt how stupid i was. And since then i just dropped all my Knowledge-ability.
I had no master but this doesn’t means that i was not a disciple. I accepted this whole universe, whole existence as my master.
Q:
How to learn from experiences?
Where can you gaining opportunities to learn?
What your past experience taught you?
Can we learn something from strangers?
What are the benefits of learning new things?
What to do when feel hopeless?
Can you learn something from a thief, little boy
or a dog?
曾經有一位偉大的蘇菲派（伊斯蘭神秘主義派別的總稱）聖人。在他生命快結束時，有人讓他說說他的老師。聖人說：“既然你問了，我就給你講講我的三位老師。”
這三個人中有一個是小偷。
曾經有一次我在沙漠中迷路了，後來我找到一條路，走到村子時已經很晚了。所有店門都關了，外面一個人都沒有。最後我發現有一個人正在牆上挖洞，我問他我能否找到一個歇腳的地方，他說這麼晚了很難找到待的地方，但如果我願意和小偷待在一起的話我可以和他一起。然後我和他一起待了一個月。
每天晚上他都跟我說：“我要去工作了，你可以休息祈禱。”他回來時我會問他：“你今天有收穫嗎？”他回答說：“今晚沒有收穫，但明天我會再試試，上天保佑。”甚至在每天都很失望的時候，他也從未失去希望，總是很開心。
我冥想好多年仍沒進展時，有好多次我都很絕望，看不到一絲希望，我想過要放棄所有，但我會突然想起那個小偷的話：“上天保佑，明天夢想就能實現。”
第二位老師是一隻狗
有一次我沿著河邊走，看見一隻狗很渴。每次這只狗看向水裡想要喝水時，它都會看見自己的倒影，很害怕。看著自己的倒影狗就叫著跑開。但它實在太渴了，還得回來。這樣重複了好多次，但最終雖然仍然恐懼，但它跳進了河裡。
看到這些，我知道了這是上帝的暗示，意思是一個人要戰勝所有恐懼勇往直前。
第三位老師是一個小男孩
我走進一個小鎮時看到一個小孩兒手裡拿著一支點燃的蠟燭。我問他：“這支蠟燭是你自己點的嗎？”他說：“是的，先生。”我說：“有時蠟燭不亮，有時卻亮，你能告訴我光亮是從哪裡來的嗎？”小男孩笑著把蠟燭吹滅了，說：“你看見光亮消失了吧？你能告訴我它去哪兒了嗎？”
小男孩繼續說道：“好吧，我告訴你它回到了來的地方。”我的自負蕩然無存，那時我想自己多愚蠢啊。從那時起，我放下了自己所有的小聰明。
我沒有老師，但這不代表我沒有在學習。我把整個宇宙、所有存在都視為自己的老師。
道理：在這個世界上，有很多東西值得學習，你可以從很多事情上學到東西。你要找到自己的老師，學會如何去學習。
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