週六(11/22) 1.公主病了2.顏色調節情緒

周六聚會地點:   請注意 週六聚會點改至板橋區光武街48 巷13號 
新埔捷運5號出口往前100公尺後右轉小巷看見全聯福利中心再左轉後往前50公尺由48巷進入  
700PM-- 9:00PM    連絡電話: 0976217450   Billy

周三基礎會話課程/ 實用會話課程 有 新聚會地點 新教室 歡迎您來參加
板橋區光武街48 巷13號 新埔捷運5號出口 7: 00PM---9:00PM

朋友們  每周一 說吧!英文讀書會 在桃園有英文練習聚會  地址: 桃園中正路50號 麥當勞 時間:700pm---9:00pm 歡迎您來參加  詳情內容  請點選首頁週ㄧ欄位


朋友們,歡迎加入周三基礎會話課程  詳情參考 首頁週三欄位
                 

公主病了
Princess syndrome and tough relationships (by myhongkonghusband)         

The princess syndrome is really just something we call the really spoiled girls, which get everything they point at, and always have it their way. These girls are just really used to getting it their way, and if they don’t hell breaks out.

Many of you probably have already seen a video where Hong Kong girl accusses guy of cheating, then keep on slapping him. And at least in my country, beside making fun of his surname slap_boyfriend which sounds really bad in my language – thought where this guy has his balls? Well, big chance in a purse he bought for her. But let`s put jokes aside.

I don`t know if it`s Chinese way of parenting that provides and helps child everything, `saving-face-issues` or what but Hong Kong or Chinese girls in general are known for having a princess sickness.

Symptoms:

    Raising nonsense requests and demands to others
    Advocating materialism
    Having extreme emotions
    Being self-indulgent, not logical
    Not concerned about social issues
    Not willing to take any responsibility (to shirk one’s duty)
    Being self-centered
    Desiring to be an authority
    Yearning to rely on others
    Having a strong sense of self-superiority
    Being self-willed

Questions:
What do you think that girls with princess syndrome?
What to do with a spoiled girlfriend/boyfriend?
How to deal with a girlfriend/a boyfriend having extreme emotions?
How to deal with people that raising nonsense requests and demands to others?
How to deal with people who having a strong sense of self-superiority?
What to do if you were in a tough relationships?
How to deal with a self-centered friend?

顏色調節情緒
10 Ways Color Affects Your Mood (scienceofpeople)

Can the color you wear really affect your mood? Research says yes; color can absolutely affect your mood, behavior and stress levels.

What Color to Wear for a Work Out: Orange

Orange is a color of stimulation and enthusiasm. Orange is a nice mix of red’s passion and yellow’s joy. Research has found that orange increases oxygen supply to the brain, produces an energizing effect, and stimulates brain activity.

What Color to Wear on a Date (if you’re a woman): Red

Red is the color of passion and gets blood pumping. Women can wear this to get their date’s heart racing.

What Color to Wear on a Date (if you’re a man): Blue

Blue is the most stable color. Women love seeing stable men. It is also calming and can help relax both you and your date’s nerves.

What to Wear If You Want to Be Seen As Aggressive: Black

Researchers examined statistics from more than 52,000 National Hockey League games and found that teams were penalized more for aggression while wearing black jerseys. (Hockey teams have two color jerseys and switch for home and away games). Interestingly, the NHL in 2003 changed it’s jersey policy so that home teams had to wear white. The authors of the study compared the sets of data and found that the same teams were assessed significantly more penalties for aggression when they wore the black jerseys than when they wore white.

What Colors Should You Paint Your Office: Blue and Green

In 1999, researchers at Creighton University found that colors significantly influence employees’ emotions and efficiency. Workers in blue offices felt the most centered, calm and hopeful towards their work. Since blue can lower heart rates and green reduces anxiety and is associated with money, a combination of blue and green is best for the workplace.

What Color You Should Never Wear to Work: Grey

Grey inspires people to be passive, uninvolved and have a lack of energy. If you like wearing grey, pairing it with a brighter color will help offset the effect.

Questions:
What is your favorite color? Why?
Can the color you wear really affect your mood?
What color can help to produces an energizing effect, and stimulates brain activity?
In your opinion, what color to wear on a date?
Do you know the colors you like related to your personality?
In your opinion, what color you should never wear to work?
What colors should you paint your office/your room?


反駁公主病 蔡依珊:這個社會會有才奇特 

【聯合新聞網╱綜合報導】

蔡依珊的公主病傳言,是從高級按摩店及五星級飯店百萬開趴開始的。她在電視專訪時首度反駁,大喊:「不公平!」並說了罕見的重話:「現在這個社會會有公主病,才是奇特吧!」蔡依珊說,被偷拍不被影響是不可能的,但坦言並未真的生氣。

被媒體誇漂亮,蔡依珊則認為內在更重要,太多形容詞反而會限制女姓。許多人認為蔡依珊是連勝文最後一道吸票王牌,她則抱持著懷疑態度,反問記者:「真的嗎?不是有人質疑。」

善用顏色調節情緒 讓你每天好心情

  在古代許多人相信顏色具有某種魔力,在今天科學家也認為顏色與人的大腦有著某種聯繫,不同顏色對人的身體“情緒”思想和行為有著深刻影響。由於人們的生活經驗、傳統習慣及年齡性格等不同,對色彩可產生的心理反應也自然不同。
  驅趕壞心情,可以穿藍色的衣服

  以前我們一提及藍色,我們會馬上聯想到英文中藍色可以作“憂鬱”的意思。但是英國的一項新研究顯示,儘管長期以來科學家認為藍色與消極因素有關,但這種顏色也能增強自信心、減輕壓力和使人感到愉快。此外,這項研究還顯示,藍色能讓人的思維敏捷。英國蘇塞克斯大學研究人員讓志願者置身於各類顏色的燈光中。結果顯示,置身於藍色中的志願者完成測試的速度提高了25%。他們的反應時間提高了12%,手眼協調和回想單詞的能力也有所改善。

  所以,心情沮喪,不好的時候,可以嘗試穿一些藍色的衣服,看看廣闊無邊的藍天。

  性別不一樣,顏色影響心情的效果也不同

  研究人員每次讓志願者置身於一種顏色時,都會記錄大腦活動、心率和排汗的情況。他們發現,藍色有助於使男人和女人心態平和。紫色使人放鬆,但只限于女人。藍色和綠色使男人愉快,藍色、紫色和橙色則讓女人的精神好。

  這項研究顯示,在建立信心方面,藍色和紅色對男人有幫助,藍色和紫色對女人的作用最大。參加這次調查的志願者共有1000人。儘管紅色提高了男人的自尊心,但它使人感到愉快或放鬆的可能性最小。

  不同顏色對情緒有不同影響

  黃色

  黃色是人出生最先看到的顏色,是一種象徵健康的顏色,它之所以顯得健康明亮,因為它是光譜中最易被吸收的顏色。它的雙重功能表現為對健康者的穩定情緒、增進食欲的作用;對情緒壓抑、悲觀失望者會加重這種不良情緒。

  綠色

  綠色是一種令人感到穩重和舒適的色彩,具有鎮靜神經、降低眼壓、解除眼疲勞、改善肌肉運動能力等作用,自然的綠色還對暈厥、疲勞、噁心與消極情緒有一定的舒緩作用。但長時間在綠色的環境中,易使人感到冷清,影響胃液的分泌,食欲減退。

  藍色

  藍色是一種令人產生遐想的色彩,另一方面,它也是相當嚴肅的色彩。具有調節神經、鎮靜安神的作用。藍色的燈光在治療失眠、降低血壓和預防感冒中有明顯作用。有人戴藍色眼鏡旅行,可以減輕暈車、暈船的症狀。但患有精神衰弱、憂鬱病的人不宜接觸藍色,否則會加重病情。

  黑色

  黑色具有清熱、鎮靜、安定的作用,對激動、煩躁、失眠、驚恐的患者起恢復安定的作用。

  橙色

  橙色能產生活力,誘發食欲,也是暖色系中的代表色彩,同樣也是代表健康的色彩,它也含有成熟與幸福之意。

  白色

  白色能反射全部的光線,具有潔凈和膨脹感。空間較小時,白色對易動怒的人可起調節作用,這樣有助於保持血壓正常。但對於患孤獨症、精神憂鬱症的患者則不宜在白色環境中久住。

  紅色

  紅色是一種較具刺激性的顏色,它給人以燃燒和熱情感。但不宜接觸過多,過多凝視大紅顏色,不僅會影響視力,而且易產生頭暈目眩之感。心腦病患者一般是禁忌紅色的。


  來源:心靈咖啡網

0 意見:

張貼留言