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Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Person Mila Jaroniec
You suspect they like hearing the sound of their own voice more than they like hearing yours.
Their project in life is your relationship — they have no goals, dreams, or aspirations of their own and define themselves by who they’re with instead of what they do.
They’re disrespectful to your family. To your face. And they don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.
They treat you less like a partner and more like a possession. As in, they don’t care so much about who you are per se, but who you are for/with/in relation to them.
They can’t take responsibility for their own emotions — they will always find room to say “Well if YOU hadn’t done x…” even if you had absolutely nothing to do with their bad mood.
They are constantly disapproving and discouraging of your goals and efforts, to the point where you don’t even bother telling them what you want anymore since they’ll cut it down anyway.
They fight dirty. Sure, fighting is a normal part of any relationship, but it’s pretty easy to decipher how someone really feels about you during a fight by the type of insults they hurl.
They’re never genuinely sorry. Even when they do apologize, they still try to convince you they were right.
They’re suspicious of everything you say and do and constantly accuse you of violating their trust, but guess who’s going through your phone and hacking into your email?
You can’t depend on them. You already know you wouldn’t call them first in the event of an emergency because they probably wouldn’t answer the phone.
Q:
What are the signs that you’re dating the wrong person?
What to do if your boyfriend or girlfriend was disrespectful to your family?
What to do if your boyfriend or girlfriend treated you only like a possession?
What to do if your boyfriend or girlfriend cannot control their own emotions?
What to do if your boyfriend or girlfriend suspicious of everything you say?
Can you trust your boyfriend or girlfriend who can really help when you were in the event of an emergency?
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Reasons Critics Are Awesome Susie Moore Confidence Coach, New York City
"No one ever kicks a dead dog" -- Dale Carnegie
1. It means you are doing something
In order to be criticized, it means you are taking action in some form. Aristotle said, "The only way to avoid criticism is to say nothing, do nothing and be nothing." People who are making things happen in the world and actually doing or standing for something are the only ones who are criticized.
2. It can make you better
When criticism is positively-fueled and constructive, we can improve, learn and grow. I love hearing thoughtful and useful feedback about my writing and coaching style. I take it all on board and use what works for me. Constructive criticism can express a great form of people's love for you. It can give you great insight and direction if your heart is open and the energy behind the feedback is well-meaning, considered and kind.
3. The person shows you who they really are
Anais Nin wisely said, "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." Negatively-fueled critics therefore show us who they really are -- often unfulfilled people who are therefore naturally unsupportive of your success. The way they react to what you are doing is a reflection of how they feel about their own lives. You can make a judgment call early on at how exposed you want to be to these people in your life.
4. You prove worthy of other people's energy
When a critic, in person or online or whatever form they take, makes the effort to write or comment about you, it means you are affecting people somehow. They are using their time and attention to talk about you. You are not being ignored. Funnily enough, being the subject of someone's criticism is a flattering thing.
Q:
Do you think that critics are good for us?
What can we learn from taking criticism?
How to keep your cool when you are criticized?
What are the most common reasons people might criticize you?
What are the reasons why people badmouth others?
How to handle being badmouthed at work?
How to give constructive criticism?
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