週二(12/15)1.努力工作或享受生活?2.幫助人的聖誕節

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努力工作或享受生活?

How do I choose between enjoying my life and working hard for the future?

I'm a recent college graduate, I'll be working as a software engineer in one of the top companies. Recently I've been reading a lot of articles by successful people giving advises for college graduates. From what I've learnt from them is either you can work really hard, day and night to climb up the ladder or you can live your life like it's your last day and enjoy as much as you can.

            Both the methods make sense to me, I know I won't be 22 again so I want to live my life and enjoy but then it's the best time to work really hard and build a solid base for rest of my life. What should I do?

Answers    Sourabh Agrawal

It would really depend on how much money you already have. If you don't have a lot you won't get to experience a lot of things anyway. Being successful doesn't necessarily mean you would be unhappy and it's not like successful people don't enjoy, they do.

We measure ourselves up against the people around us and our friends. You will do that too. You will start feeling a pinch when your friends would be doing better than you after a few years. And eventually, most of the things would come only with success, the car you wanna drive, the place to wanna go, the watch you wanna wear, the house you wanna own, the girl you wanna date.

So, you need to find a middle path between happiness and success. Try to figure out how much can you give up for work and while doing that be biased towards giving more to work.

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幫助人的聖誕節

Ways To Be a Little More Giving This Season  by Nicolette

Visit those who are lonely.

Some of the best gifts aren’t “things.”  A cheery visit to someone who lives alone may be just the nourishment they need.  Take your family caroling at an assisted living facility.  Visit a neighbor or family member who lives alone.  Save your children’s artwork to take as a small gift to brighten their day.

 “We like doing Santa for seniors each year.  We sign up to give a senior items they want or need.  I found it very heartwarming myself to know that we can help seniors and not just kids during this time.”

Operation Christmas Child.

Operation Christmas Child invites your family to pack a shoebox full of gifts for children in need all around the world.  Your children will love playing an active part in making another child’s Christmas brighter.  You can even track the destination of your box!  *Note that the shoebox collection week occurs in November, but you can still build a shoebox online!  You can also send completed boxes year-round to their headquarters here.

Give the gift of family time.

I like this particular suggestion that I would never normally think of.  It’s a great thing to keep in mind when giving gifts this season.

“One thing that I really appreciated while my husband was a student was when an anonymous person gave our family gift certificates for a movie. We hadn’t been able to do a family activity like that for a long, long time. I’d buy gift cards for an activity that a family wouldn’t normally be able to do.
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Helping the homeless.

“We give back during the holiday by packing back packs for the homeless with clothing items, toiletries, and food.  It comes with a sleeping bag as well.  So far, since last month, we have given out 12 and have ten more we are packing now…we love doing it.
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“My kids are still young, but when they are old enough, I’d love to make it a family tradition to serve at a soup kitchen or pack lunch bags and deliver to the homeless. From experience, you’ll make a bigger impact and acts of kindness become more meaningful if you work with the people directly and get to meet those you are helping.
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Q:

What do you think about Christmas?

How to help others on Christmas?

How to pick good Christmas presents

What are the ways to celebrate Christmas?

“Donate your old coat to help someone stay warm this winter”

Have you ever donated old clothes to charities?

How to help the poor people?