如何知道他EQ好?
How Do You Know Someone Has Emotional Intelligence?
inc.com
1. They manage their emotions better than most.
Self-control (or "self-management") is a personal competence developed in every person. The question behind self-control is: Can I manage my emotions and behavior to a positive outcome?
Internationally known psychologist and best-selling author Daniel Goleman says this about people with self-control:
Reasonable people--the ones who maintain control over their emotions--are the people who can sustain safe, fair environments. In these settings, drama is very low and productivity is very high. Top performers flock to these organizations and are not apt to leave them.
Self-control, along with mindfulness, are skills we teach and coach leaders so they have the capacity to be present, calm, and focused during times of high stress. It's a necessary virtue with long-term payoff.
2. They know themselves at their core.
It's often easy to neglect our own feelings, self-care, what makes us tick, what pushes our buttons, and what triggers will set us off. Knowing yourself at the core is a good barometer for gaging your own happiness, and creating incredible growth.
3. They respond instead of react.
Speaking of triggers, so often we react when faced with an emotionally charged situation or a difficult co-worker or client, or even when we have a spout with our spouse or children.
It's quite human of us--we'll get defensive, act out in fear about something from deep inside us. In high-EQ people, once you get a handle on the root cause of your negative reactions, you can respond with confidence and self-control.
4. They put themselves in other people's shoes.
People are drawn to empathy, it's an attractive quality to have in building successful relationships at work. In fact, DDI research has proven that empathy is the No. 1 driver of overall organizational performance. Who knew?
And empathy is something you can develop, and it starts with thinking about other people's circumstances, understanding their pains and frustrations, and knowing that those emotions are every bit as real as your own. This helps you develop perspective, and opens you up to helping others, which also enhances your sense of gratitude.
5. They are the first to reach out after an argument.
The tendency for so many of us is to let resentment fester after an argument or misunderstanding, and then cut off the person from our lives until he or she reaches out to us with an apology. It's convenient.
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How a high EQ can boost your career?
Can you really improve your emotional
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IQ or EQ: which one is more important?
隱形斗篷?
What is cloak of invisibility?
techtarget.com
A cloak of invisibility is a method of rendering physical objects undetectable or invisible. Researchers from the United States and England have developed a prototype for a cloaking device that can hide an object approximately 30 centimeters (1 foot ) in diameter. The device works by producing a mirage, in a manner similar to the way a layer of heated air causes reflection or refraction of light to create an illusion that can conceal objects on the earth's surface when viewed from a distance at a grazing angle.
Japan invents invisibility cloak - Tokyo Times
One of the most exciting abilities of characters in movies and books, invisibility, was brought much more close to becoming reality, thanks to the work of Japanese researchers.
They developed a hi-tech cloak which, worn by a person, makes him or her look “transparent”, much like the famous Harry Potter used to do when cornered by enemies.
The transparent cloak is made using so-called retro-reflective projection technology. A camera fitted on the back of the cloak records what happens behind the wearer and projects the image on the front, creating the illusion that the person is transparent.
“A computer processes the background imagery and relays it to a projector that filters through a half mirror and projects the scene onto the wearer. From a certain angle, the cloaked person looks transparent to onlookers,” explained Dr. Susumu Tachi, the leader of the research team at the University of Tokyo’s Tachi Lab.
The concept is expected to find practical use in cars, helicopters and planes, helping drivers and pilots to see “through” the vehicle as they operate it. It could for example help eliminate “blind spots” in the car, so that the driver notices easier a motorcyclist approaching from behind, or it could help a driver back the car up without the risk of hitting unseen obstacles.
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What is your opinion about cloak of invisibility?
What would you do if you have invisible cloak?
Do you know any super pow
If you wish to invent something, what would you invent and why?
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