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星座決定命運嗎?
How does astrology decide our fate? How can a star have impact on my life? How will you design the
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Many people still come to false conclusion that astrology follows geocentric, with this single assumption even so called modern thinkers quiet easily reject this subject. But in actual astrology follows heliocentric theory ie: Sun is the center of solar system and all planets revolve around the Sun. In reality astrology is study of influence of Sun and other planets on Earth with Earth as center of observation, it doesn’t mean that earth becomes center of the solar system. Please read our article “ASTROLOGY – Heliocentric or Geocentric Model for more details.
Coming to question on astrology deciding the fate, there is misconception that astrology decides everything and gives no room for hard work or effort. This is a myth, astrology simply indicates your inherit strength and weakness, it is again based on hard work or effort one can achieve anything in life. Please read my article “Astrology and Fatalism[2]” for more details.
As I already mentioned astrology considers Earth as point of observation, so in similar way if a person is born on Moon or Mars then we will consider Mars as our point of observation and cast the horoscope. For example when we cast horoscope we observe Sun in 12 different constellation in 12 months(Sun is seen in one constellation in one month) as Earth take 12 months to complete one revolution around the Sun, now if the point of observation becomes Mars then Sun will transit ~2 months in each constellation because Mars take ~1.88 earth years to complete one rotation around the Sun.
Astrology doesn't decide your fate at all. The analysis and interpretation of a chart is never going to be based on one star, one luminary (Sun or Moon) or one planet.
First of all, I don't see this as prediction. I call it a forecast. One's use of the word "prediction" in English implies "fate." While you didn't use the word "prediction," your asking "How astrology decides our fate" implies that you would expect the analysis to be based on fate.
I see a forecast as something that works with several factors:
Analysis and interpretation. Without this, there is no forecast (or prediction). It's the focus of work for every astrologer, including those who are working with mundane (world) events, researching or conducting studies versus doing individual chart analysis.
Fate. Yes, fate does exist, but it's only one factor in play. Fate can be relevant, for example, if you are in a group setting, or if you're in a situation involving others. What happens to you often but not always brings others into the mix. (You may take ill because you allowed yourself to get run down, or you may have an accident from clumsiness, for example.) What you decide is your decision and may or may not have bearing on others and what's going on in their lives. If it does affect others, then you have exercised your free will but your actions/decisions will be fate to them because they may not have had an active role in this action or decision. This depends on the situation itself.
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How to help a friend through a rough patch - Kids Help Phone
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Is your friend going through a tough time? Here’s how to help when things get rough.
When a friend is going through a hard time, it’s common to feel helpless and sad. It’s also hard to know what to do, even though you really want to help. Remember, sometimes all you need to do is be there for your friend. You may not be able to fix the problems, but they will appreciate that you care.
Ways to help a friend
There are many different ways to help a friend. You can:
Be there: one of the most helpful things you can do is just show up for your friend. Make plans to hang out. Call them regularly to check in. People who are suffering often have a hard time reaching out for help, so try to reassure your friend that you’re there for them.
Listen: it can be comforting for your friend to feel like someone understands what they’re going through. Ask if they want to talk about it. Good listening means that you hear them out, without interruptions or judgment.
Learn: if your friend is going through an experience that you’re not familiar with, learning more about it can help you understand. It can also prepare you to talk about it more comfortably.
Respect their pain: try not to say things like, “Cheer up!” or “Things aren’t so bad.” Those kinds of phrases dismiss what your friend is going through. Even if you don’t understand why they’re so upset, allow them to feel what they’re feeling without judging them.
Look inside: you may be able to help your friend by referencing your own experiences. Think back to a rough patch in your past. What helped you through it or what do you wish someone had done for you?
Difficult conversations
Sometimes it’s necessary to have a difficult conversation with a friend. Some things are really hard to talk about, but it’s important to approach your friend if you’re worried about them. Maybe you’ve noticed that your friend seems down a lot, isn’t eating well or is in an abusive relationship. Talking to your friend lets them know that you care and that you’re there for them.
What do I say?
Approaching a friend about a sensitive subject can be tough. It’s a good idea to prepare yourself. Consider these approaches to hard conversations:
Let your friend know you’re concerned. You could say, “I’ve noticed ‘X.’ Is there anything you want to talk about?”
If your friend doesn’t want to talk, let them know you’ll be there for them if they change their mind. You can also ask, “Would it be helpful for you to speak to someone else about what has been happening?”
Don’t lecture or tell your friend that they need to change in some way. This only puts pressure on them. They’ll make a change when they’re ready. You can be there for them and let them know you care.
Wait until you’re calm before approaching your friend. If you’re emotional, you may have trouble thinking clearly. You may say something you don’t mean to say, or your message may come out the wrong way.
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